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Leaving my apartment without telling my landlord

Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, I hope this message finds you well. I am seeking your guidance on a difficult situation regarding my tenancy. I am an international student... more

Posted by Reader on Dec 15, 2025 Topic: Other

Fiancee celebrating Christmas with her family

Assalamu alaykum, I’m Muslim and I’ve been dating my partner and we plan to get married soon inshaAllah. She plans to revert, but we are stuck on one issue. She really loves... more

Posted by Reader on Dec 15, 2025 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Is running away from a school fight haram?

If someone hits you in school and you don't fight back, is it haram? more

Posted by Reader on Dec 11, 2025 Topic: Other

Should I leave my husband?

We have been married for almost 24 years. Soon after we got married, my husband told me he was in debt. Before getting married, we used to talk, but... more

Posted by Reader on Dec 09, 2025 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

How can we be as brave as the Prophet?

The prophet (saw) was brave - how can we be brave too since we aren't prophets but rather normal human beings, especially when it comes to things like standing with... more

Posted by Reader on Nov 27, 2025 Topic: Friends & Social Issues

Visiting a country whose policies I disagree with?

Assalamualaikum, I told my friend from Dubai that I am not going to visit there because of what they are doing in Sudan. He invited me for vacation, however I refused.... more

Posted by Reader on Nov 25, 2025 Topic: Faith & Spirituality

What is the purpose of wudhu?

Why is wudhu important for salah? more

Posted by Reader on Nov 21, 2025 Topic: Faith & Spirituality

Shia boy getting to know Sunni girl

Salamu Alaikum, I am a 16 year old Shia boy currently in 10th grade. There is a Sunni girl that I like and want to get to know better. ... more

Posted by Reader on Nov 20, 2025 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Will my boyfriend come back to me?

I have a boyfriend who is upset with me over a lie I told. He is adamant on not coming back into a relationship with me. I have... more

Posted by Reader on Nov 20, 2025 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

A Workplace Invoicing Dilemma

Assalamu aleykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, Sorry for the long question. Here is the description of the situation: A Muslim physiotherapist works as an employee in a hospital in Belgium. The duration... more

Posted by Reader on Nov 19, 2025 Topic: Work & Finances

Is this duaa authentic?

Please explain this duaa. Is it an authentic one? اَلْلٰهُمَّ اِنَّكَ تَعْلَمُ سِرّّنّا وَعٰلٰى نِيَتِنَا وَتَعٌلَمُ حَاجٰاتِنَا فَأًتِنَا سُوٌلَنَا ،فَأتِنَا سُوٌلَنَا،فَأتِنَا سؤلَنَا more

Posted by Reader on Nov 10, 2025 Topic: Other

Are sex toys ok?

I’m a happily married woman in my mid-thirties. My husband and I have been married for ten years, and we have two beautiful children together. We have a strong relationship,... more

Posted by Reader on Nov 03, 2025 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Should we confess after lying?

Should we confess after lying? more

Posted by Reader on Oct 31, 2025 Topic: Friends & Social Issues

Halal and Haram Investments

What kind of investment and business can be considered as halal in Islam. Nowadays, there are so many kinds of investments and businesses, even in gold and silver, like gold... more

Posted by Reader on Oct 28, 2025 Topic: Work & Finances

Do I have to reconnect with my estranged father?

My father and mother separated when I was 3 years old. After that, my father did not make much effort to keep in contact with me. He later remarried.... more

Posted by Reader on Oct 18, 2025 Topic: Family & Parenting

Proposed to in a Dream

I saw a dream of a boy from school proposing to me. In real life, I’m a 15 yr old female. For about a year now, I’ve really... more

Posted by Reader on Oct 07, 2025 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

How do I deal with low libido?

Asalamwalikum, I saw something online related to a Hadith that stated that a woman who refuses her husband sex (for non-reasons such as breastfeeding/post-partum) is cursed by the angels. The... more

Posted by Reader on Sep 29, 2025 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

semi-secret nikah

Assalamu alaikum. I'm a 22 year old woman, in my first year of university. I have been in a relationship for about two years. We have not been intimate... more

Posted by Reader on Sep 15, 2025 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Is life insurance haram?

Can a Muslim buy a life insurance? more

Posted by Reader on Aug 26, 2025 Topic: Other

What are the inheritance shares in Islam?

Please explain clearly the property distribution (inheritance) mentioned in Sura Nisa Ayaat # 11 and 12 of a deceased person. more

Posted by Reader on Aug 18, 2025 Topic: Other

Trouble maintaining my purity for prayer

Assalamu 'alaikum, I am research scholar doing my PhD in History. There is a girl in my department whom I like and want to marry. She is also doing her... more

Posted by Reader on Aug 06, 2025 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Problems with my Islamic Credit Card

Alrajhi Bank has a charge card that, according to them, in Shari'a compliant. It allows the cardholder to withdraw cash from ATMs, as well as buy goods and services... more

Posted by Reader on Aug 05, 2025 Topic: Work & Finances

How do I atone for my sin?

I have taken one urdu book from my madrasa. And I can't return it. It's been around 3 to 4 years, and now that madrasa has moved to another place.... more

Posted by Reader on Aug 05, 2025 Topic: Other

Is pork gelatin in supplements ok?

Asalaam alaykum. Is it permissible to take supplements that have porcine gelatin? I understand that the meat of the pork is strictly prohibited, but does it apply to gelatin? The... more

Posted by Reader on Jun 10, 2025 Topic: Other

Is an Online Relationship Haram?

I'm a 17-year-old Muslim girl, and I’ve been in an online relationship with a 19-year-old boy for some time now. Recently, I sought advice from an older sister at our... more

Posted by Reader on Apr 15, 2025 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Can I Get Married Without My Parents' Consent?

As-Salaamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu, I hope you are doing well by the grace of Allah, Alhamdulillah. I am an 18-year-old university student, entering my second year in September, Insha’Allah. I have come to... more

Posted by Reader on Mar 12, 2025 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Do I Have to Retake a Test I Cheated On?

Assalamualaikum, I am not in the U.S. I took an exam last year in which I cheated. Now I have to apply for "college x" in which there is... more

Posted by Reader on Feb 13, 2025 Topic: Work & Finances

Marrying a Much Younger Woman

I am a 63-year-old divorced man navigating life in my later years. Recently, I met someone special—a 32-year-old girl who has brought companionship, joy, and a fresh perspective into my... more

Posted by Reader on Jan 15, 2025 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Is Dancing Haram?

Is dancing haram? more

Posted by Reader on Dec 20, 2024 Topic: Friends & Social Issues

Who Is Responsible for Household Finances?

My wife and I have been having this disagreement for a while now and I would like to have some clarity on it from a source other than my wife.... more

Posted by Reader on Dec 17, 2024 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Can I Attend a Gay Wedding?

I recently found myself in a difficult situation and could use some guidance. A close friend of mine, whom I’ve known for several years, has come out as gay and... more

Posted by Reader on Dec 13, 2024 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Can I Marry an Ahmedi?

Salam. I am a 24 year old Muslim, Sunni woman. I met this guy earlier this year, great guy, he also now identifies as Sunni. However, he grew up Ahmedi and... more

Posted by Reader on Dec 11, 2024 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Am I Wrong to Reject a 'Perfect' Proposal?

Asalam Alaykum, I'm a 25 year old Muslim female and my hand has been asked for marriage. My parents say they know him very well (him and his family) and... more

Posted by Reader on Nov 20, 2024 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Spiritual Insight or Black Magic?

Salam I have a question that has been troubling me. I am a Muslim, go to the mosque as often as possible, keep away from haram as much as I can,... more

Posted by Reader on Oct 30, 2024 Topic: Faith & Spirituality

How Were the Suras Named?

Salam Aleikum! In what situation it is allowed to use just an Aya instead of a whole sura in prayer ? Was it a practice of our Prophet PBUH Also how did... more

Posted by Reader on Sep 27, 2024 Topic: Other

Can God decree a haram thing as someone's destiny?

In Islam, can Allah decree a haram thing for a person in his destiny, i.e. make it obligatory? Or is this not possible, since Allah would never force a... more

Posted by Reader on Aug 30, 2024 Topic: Faith & Spirituality

Spouse converted to get married

A Muslim woman married for over 20 years to an American who converted to Islam in order to fulfill marriage requirements. The wife knew that and back then, she... more

Posted by Reader on Aug 18, 2024 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Inheritance in the U.S.

Should a Muslim living in the United States follow the shari'a or local laws for inheritance? more

Posted by Reader on Aug 13, 2024 Topic: Work & Finances

How do I resist temptation?

What should a person do if he's not getting married because of studies and parental pressure, but simultaneously finding it very hard to refrain from sins. I know fasting... more

Posted by Reader on Jul 27, 2024 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

What can I do with interest from the bank?

Assalamoalaikoum, Recently I received a large sum of money as interest from my savings account, and I am aware that using this money for personal benefit is not permissible in Islam.... more

Posted by Reader on Jul 14, 2024 Topic: Work & Finances

Gay and interested in Islam

Hey there, So, spirituality has always been a big deal for me. I grew up in a strict Christian household, but I never really felt like I fit in with all... more

Posted by Reader on May 29, 2024 Topic: Faith & Spirituality

Touchy Issue

As'salamualikum. My question is regarding a hadith in Sunan Abu Dawood. Hadith #2049 A man came to the Prophet (ﷺ), and said: My wife does not prevent the hand of a man... more

Posted by Reader on May 20, 2024 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Is having a dog as a pet ok?

Assalamu Alaikum. I have some concerns and confusion that I would like to bring to your attention respectfully. Please bear with me as I try to express my thoughts. I am 82... more

Posted by Canine Confusion on Apr 27, 2024 Topic: Other

Would my marriage be valid?

Assalamualaykum, I am a convert to Islam and I wanted to know if my marriage will be considered valid under the following circumstances: 1. As the only Muslim in my family, and... more

Posted by Marriage Matters on Apr 21, 2024 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Can I pray Qasr if crossing continents?

I live in the European side of Istanbul, Turkey. I was recently informed that if I go to visit someone in the Asian side of Istanbul that I can pray Qasr... more

Posted by Qasr Question on Apr 21, 2024 Topic: Faith & Spirituality

Do our pets go to heaven?

Hello! I was wondering what happens to our animals (Dog, Cats) after death? Do we find them in heaven? Also, if I have a dog, live in a cold country,... more

Posted by Pet Lover on Apr 21, 2024 Topic: Other

Struggling with Hijab

I'm a female recent revert, still learning the ropes, as it were To be honest in an ideal world I would wear the Hijab all the time because I understand and... more

Posted by Struggling with Hijab on Mar 15, 2024 Topic: Faith & Spirituality

Why do I just suck at religion?

Why do i just suck at religion? I am drawn toward it and try to do right, but it never seems to work I get little comfort, i think lots of heretical... more

Posted by Down on My Faith on Mar 03, 2024 Topic: Faith & Spirituality

Why does God guide some and not others?

Why do so many people find peace in Islam and why do some Muslims become atheist? more

Posted by Concerned about Guidance on Feb 25, 2024 Topic: Faith & Spirituality

Can Lab Grown Meat be Halal?

Can Lab Grown meat be considered halal? more

Posted by Where's the Beef on Feb 25, 2024 Topic: Other

If I can't stop drinking, should I stop praying?

I work as a stockbroker in an incredibly stressful environment, and after particularly frustrating days, I find myself turning to a shot of whisky or scotch to calm down. I... more

Posted by Feeling Guilty about Drinking on Feb 17, 2024 Topic: Other

Out of Line Father-In-Law

I find myself in a challenging situation that I am ashamed to discuss with my family, friends or someone at my local mosque. I hope you can give me some... more

Posted by In-Law Troubles on Feb 05, 2024 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Is a guardian's consent required for marriage?

Assalamo-alaykum, I came across your answer with valid reasons in response to a sister’s question about validity of secret marriage that I fully support. Now concerning the approval from guardians... more

Posted by Wali Worries on Jan 21, 2024 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Am I Married?

‏اَلسَلامُ عَلَيْكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اَللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ‎ I’m in a relationship with a non-Muslim woman. We live together, and everyone knows we are in a relationship. We are not formally married, but... more

Posted by Am I Married? on Jan 16, 2024 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

If heaven or hell is predestined, why the test?

I'm 12 years old and was wondering, since Allah knows everything, then why did He put us in this test? He knows whether we're going to hell or paradise so... more

Posted by Inquisitive Young Person on Jan 16, 2024 Topic: Faith & Spirituality

Why do Muslims worship a Jewish God?

Why do Muslims worship a Jewish God? more

Posted by Wondering about the Jewish God on Jan 04, 2024 Topic: Other

Are Ahmadiyya considered Muslims?

Are Ahmadiyya considered Muslims according to mainstream Muslims? more

Posted by Asking about Ahmadiyya on Jan 02, 2024 Topic: Faith & Spirituality

Looking for a good Muslim matchmaking site

I tried many social media sites to find a good match. But many Muslim/Arabic sites felt like they were scams. Can you suggest any resources? Thanks. more

Posted by Looking on Dec 24, 2023 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

How do we instill Islamic values in our children?

In this contemporary era, where various challenges and opposing ideologies to Islam prevail, how can Muslims successfully instill values of respect, love, and adherence to their faith in their children?... more

Posted by Concerned Parent on Dec 14, 2023 Topic: Family & Parenting

Is my secret marriage valid?

I converted to Islam a few years ago and entered into a marriage with a Muslim man. My husband insisted on keeping our marriage a secret from his family, fearing... more

Posted by Secretly Married on Dec 14, 2023 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Why did Prophet Muhammad have more than 4 wives?

Asalamu Alaikum. What is the proper way to answer to a non-Muslim who is asking why Prophet Mohamed (PBUH) went against the Quran by marrying more than four wives and... more

Posted by Trying to Understand on Dec 06, 2023 Topic: Faith & Spirituality

Converted away - can I come back?

I am a 41 year old male studying at a university in East Africa. I converted to Christianity through the Internet back in 2009 and have since been working with some... more

Posted by Converted Away on Nov 26, 2023 Topic: Faith & Spirituality

Gaza Genocide Making me Disillusioned

The ongoing crisis in Gaza, with its brutal images of innocent women and children losing their lives, has deeply disturbed me and given me a profound sense of conflict. I've lived... more

Posted by Disillusioned on Nov 19, 2023 Topic: Other

Can I come back to Islam a second time?

When I was 18, I spoke to some Muslim friends, and after many discussions and learnings, I recited the Shahada. I was religious and did my best to live life... more

Posted by Reverting Again on Nov 18, 2023 Topic: Faith & Spirituality

Is Female Genital Mutilation an Islamic practice?

Is FGM taught in the Quran? Why do so many Muslims promote it? Thank You. more

Posted by Concerned about FGM on Oct 29, 2023 Topic: Other

Sunni-Shia Marriage

As-salamu alaykum I am interested in marrying a man who is my class fellow. This man has been respectful and has told his parents from the beginning, and I want to... more

Posted by Sunni Gal on Oct 21, 2023 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Does polygamy lead to wifeless men?

In Islam, we allow multiple wives for men. With the sex ratio almost 1:1 and if one man gets two women it means another man has zero, so for every... more

Posted by Concerned about Polygamy on Oct 19, 2023 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Addressing Palestine with Jewish Friends

Watching the Israel-Palestine conflict unfold, I find myself in deep confusion. I have several close Jewish friends in my circle that I hold dear. When news of the Hamas attack... more

Posted by Struggling to Navigate on Oct 15, 2023 Topic: Other

Romance Novels causing a Problem

I'm a 21-year-old woman, and I love reading romantic novels. However, my parents consistently belittle me, saying it's a waste of time and telling me to read the Quran and... more

Posted by Independent Reader on Oct 13, 2023 Topic: Family & Parenting

Marrying a Non-Muslim

I am a 36-year-old Muslim woman currently working as a nurse in the Midwest. My parents have been arranging meetings with potential suitors for me and want me to settle... more

Posted by Midwestern Muslimah on Oct 09, 2023 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Second Wife?

I want to share a little about my marriage and could also use some advice. Our marriage has been less than a year long. In this little time, I studied him... more

Posted by First Wife on Oct 02, 2023 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

How can I quit drinking?

Assalamo Alaikum, I pray five times a day, but I have tattoos, and I drink. How can I quit drinking? Thanks more

Posted by Want to Stop Drinking on Sep 27, 2023 Topic: Other

How can I avoid Riba while managing housing costs?

When I first bought my house, I didn't understand the issue surrounding Riba. I don't make enough to pay the balance on my home outright. It would be... more

Posted by Worried Homeowner on Sep 20, 2023 Topic: Work & Finances

Tattoos and Islam: Covering Up?

I used to be a Tattoo artist and I recently converted to Islam. I still respect and love tattoo art, even though I am no longer directly involved in it.... more

Posted by Tattoos and Long Sleeves on Sep 19, 2023 Topic: Faith & Spirituality

High Blood Pressure and Sex Life

Salam Alaikum. I have recently been diagnosed with high blood pressure, and the medications I have been placed on have affected my libido. I can hardly get an erection now,... more

Posted by Frustrated on Sep 17, 2023 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Dressing for my parents or myself

I'm a Muslim living in a small Midwestern town and grappling with cultural expectations and how I want to dress. My family expects me to follow very conservative cultural and religious... more

Posted by Dressing Dilemma on Sep 16, 2023 Topic: Friends & Social Issues

Why are Art, Music and Dancing Haram

I am a 71-year-old convert to Islam. I am totally committed to the faith, but I am concerned that I love music, art, and dancing with my wife. I'm... more

Posted by Guilty Feet Have Got No Rhythm on Aug 07, 2023 Topic: Friends & Social Issues

Distressed dog lover

I love dogs. I do not own one, but my friends' dogs love me. My understanding is that for Muslims, it is haram to own dogs. Is that true? more

Posted by Distressed dog lover on Jul 31, 2023 Topic: Friends & Social Issues

Tawheed Doubts

Thank you for having the anonymous format, because it lets me bring out an issue that has long been troubling me. I am a Muslim, and so I know... more

Posted by Tawheed Doubts on Jul 24, 2023 Topic: Faith & Spirituality

Breast Implant Dilemma

I am a bit embarrassed, but here goes. I have been married for about five years, and my husband is a nice man and a good Muslim. However, over... more

Posted by Implant Dilemma on Jul 20, 2023 Topic: Marriage & Relationships

Hesitant Organ Donor

I just recently turned 60 and had to renew my driver’s license. I declined when I got to the part about whether I wanted to be an organ donor. My... more

Posted by Hesitant Organ Donor on Jul 12, 2023 Topic: Other

Alcohol Conundrum at Muslim Friends' Gathering

My family and I were recently invited to a barbecue lunch at the house of some Muslim friends we recently met. Many others were there. Soon after we... more

Posted by Feeling conflicted on Jul 07, 2023 Topic: Friends & Social Issues

My son wants to attend senior prom next year…

My son is a junior in high school. When he was younger, he attended Islamic school, and we did our best to help him understand that he has a distinct... more

Posted by Prom Prob on Jul 05, 2023 Topic: Family & Parenting

I am approaching retirement and have concerns ...

For all of my adult life, I have paid Zakat as 2.5% of my saved assets. I am approaching retirement and have developed concerns about how to pay zakat in... more

Posted by Want to Retire on Jul 03, 2023 Topic: Work & Finances

I have to go to dinner with clients who drink ...

In my line of work, I sometimes have to go to dinners with clients. Although I don’t order or drink any alcohol, the clients sometimes do. I am expected, on... more

Posted by Stuck Wining and Dining on Jul 01, 2023 Topic: Work & Finances