Remembering our loved ones with prayers and supplications for them as this is what pleases Allah SWT most .

The hadith narrated by Al-qartha' speaks of the mourning etiquette according to the Prophet Muhammad. When Abu Musa was close to death, his wife screamed and he reminded her of what the Messenger of Allah said about mourning. He said that the Messenger of Allah cursed those who shave their head, raise their voice in lamentation or rends his garment when someone dies. This is a reminder for us that we should not do any of these things as it goes against Islamic teachings and values. We should instead remember our loved ones with prayers and supplications for them as this is what pleases Allah SWT most.