The key to your station with Allah is ikhlas.
There is a frightening hadith about a scholar, a martyr and a charitable man on the Day of Judgment. They all expect to enter Paradise because of their good deeds. Instead, they are sent to the Fire, because their deeds were done with the intention of pleasing people - not pleasing Allah . They wanted people to see them as they were doing good because they wanted people's praise.
What is Ikhlas?
Ikhlas is to do everything, internal and external, only desiring the pleasure of Allah. It is to forget the eyes of the people, and whether they view your deeds or not, with the only thing on your mind that Allah is watching you. There are beautiful verses in the Qur'an in this regard, where Allah describes the Abraar in Jannah:
"They [are those who] fulfill [their] vows and fear a Day
Imam al-Ghazali said that if you want to know whether something you did was purely for the sake of Allah or not, you should test your reaction when someone acts ungratefully. Do you feel self-righteous, like you were doing the person a favor? Do you feel angry that they did not appreciate your work? It may not mean that your act was ostentatious, but it points to the fact that it was not solely for the sake of Allah . We were expecting, at the very least, recognition and respect from the person as a result of the good we did to them.
We all know the famous story of the prostitute who was rewarded with Paradise for giving a dog water - but what truly got her into Paradise? Was it just that simple act? It could not have been, because as we mentioned above, there are scholars, martyrs and charitable people who will be thrown in hell because they were insincere. But she was helping the dog for Allah only. Look at how your intention elevates your deeds. This is why the scholars have said that it is the most important act of worship of the heart - to have the driving force of your acts be to please Allah.
This is closely linked to ihsan - that you are worshipping Allah as though you see Him and you know that He sees you.
Khurram Murad states that "purpose and intention are like the soul of a body or the inner capability of a seed. Many seeds look alike, but as they begin to grow and bear fruit, their differences become manifest. The purer and higher the motive, the greater the value and yield of your efforts."
Ikhlas is the foundation of any work that we do - if the foundation is corrupt, then the building can easily be broken.
Does this only apply to specific acts of worship or can it also apply to regular habits?
Allah says in the Qur'an:
"Say, "Indeed, my prayer, my rites of sacrifice,
This verse tells us that everything can be for the sake of Allah. Moreover, Khurram Murad reminds us of something crucial. He states,
"People are in the habit of classifying life's activities into those which are mundane and those which are religious. Remember, though, only those things done for the sake of Allah are the 'religious' things. Everything that is done for other than Allah - however 'religious' it may seem - is a worldly act ... if he earns thousands of pounds to support his family and to spend for the cause of Allah, seeking only Allah's pleasure, it is a highly spiritual act."
Even your sleep can be for Allah ; if you say you will sleep at a certain hour so you can wake up for Fajr, then your sleep is for Allah . Imagine being rewarded for 6-8 hours of sleep!
Importance of Ikhlas
Allah says in the Qur'an:
"And they were not commanded except to worship Allah,
If we look at the story of Yusuf , it was ikhlas that saved him. Allah describes him in Surat Yusuf:
"And she certainly determined [to seduce] him,
Subhan'Allah. And moreover, Satan can get to all humans except those who have ikhlas. In the Qur'an, Allah tells us:
"[Satan] said, "My Lord, because You have put me in error,
This should remind us of what the Prophet said about 'Umar: Satan would avoid the path that 'Umar was on because he was afraid of him. Imagine being at that level!
The more complete the ikhlas becomes, the more the person is upright. We are prone to making mistakes, and we may find that sometimes our intentions are mixed; sometimes there may not be an apparent intention behind whatever act we are doing. That is why we need to aspire to be of the sincere. As long as we are constantly reminding ourselves of doing things for Allah , He will even reward us for that insha'Allah.
We should not despair and be paranoid. It is narrated by 'Amr bin al-Aas, that the Prophet said "A person from my Ummah will be summoned in the presence of all creatures on the Day of Judgment. Ninety-nine records (of his deeds) would be unfolded, each extending as far as the eye can see; then he would be asked: 'Do you deny any of these deeds?' He will reply: 'No, My Lord.' He will be asked: 'Do you have any excuse or any good deed?' The man will say: 'No.' It will be said to him: 'Yes you have some good deeds. No iniquity will befall you.' A card will then be shown to him. On it will be written: 'La ilaaha ila Allah, Muhammad Rasul Allah.' He will say: 'O Allah! What cards and records are these?' It will be said to him: 'No injustice shall befall you.' The (ninety-nine) records will then be placed in one pan of the scale and the card on the other. The card will then outweigh the records." [Tirmidhi]
This is due to his sincerity with la ilaaha ila Allah - there is no deity other than Allah.
Secrets of Ikhlas
Ikhlas is something that Allah puts in the heart of worshipers who seek it. Sheikh Omar AbdelKafy said that there are 3 secrets of Ikhlas:
Examples of those with Ikhlas
There is a beautiful example in the mother of Mariam :
|"When the wife of 'Imran said, "My Lord, indeed I have pledged to You what is in my womb, consecrated [for Your service], so accept this from me. Indeed, You are the Hearing, the Knowing" (Qur'an, 3:35).|
She was having a beautiful private conversation with Allah . She told Him the child that was in her womb was solely for Him. She would raise it in the way of Allah, so that the child would be a worshipper of Allah, not for any reason save His pleasure. And for that sincere conversation, Allah rewarded her with one of the best women: Mariam , who fulfilled her mother's pledge, by the grace of Allah.
Another example is Khalid bin al-Walid . He was removed from his post as commander of the army by 'Umar. Imagine being the head of a youth group, captain of a sports team, or a manager at a company. Suddenly there is a change of management - you are removed from your position and demoted to a regular team member or employee. How would you react? How would that affect your work? Instead of being offended and refusing to fight, Khalid fought with even more vigor. When he was asked why, he said: "I fight for Allah and not for Umar." He wanted to ensure that he was not working hard because he was put in a specific position - rather wherever he was, he would work hard for the sake of Allah .
May Allah help us attain ikhlas.
Source: SuhaibWebb - Jinan Bastaki