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(Book 29, Hadith 107) #36323
Mourning Etiquette for Widows

SUMMARY: A woman in mourning for her husband should not wear any jewellery, colorful or striped garments, or cloth dyed with anything except black. She should anoint her eyes with olive oil and sesame oil and the like of that since there is no perfume in it.

Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafic that Safiyya bint Abi Ubayd suffered from an eye-complaint while she was in mourning for her husband, Abdullah ibn Umar. She did not apply kohl until her eyes almost had ramas (a dry white secretion in the corners of the eye). Malik said, "A woman whose husband has died should anoint her eyes with olive oil and sesame oil and the like of that since there is no perfume in it". Malik said, "A woman in mourning for her husband should not put on any jewellery - rings, anklets, or such- like, neither should she dress in any sort of colorful, striped garment unless it is coarse. She should not wear any cloth dyed with anything except black, and she should only dress her hair with things like lotus-tree leaves which do not dye the hair".
وَحَدَّثَنِي عَنْ مَالِكٍ، عَنْ نَافِعٍ، أَنَّ صَفِيَّةَ بِنْتَ أَبِي عُبَيْدٍ، اشْتَكَتْ عَيْنَيْهَا وَهِيَ حَادٌّ عَلَى زَوْجِهَا عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ فَلَمْ تَكْتَحِلْ حَتَّى كَادَتْ عَيْنَاهَا تَرْمَصَانِ ‏.‏ قَالَ مَالِكٌ تَدَّهِنُ الْمُتَوَفَّى عَنْهَا زَوْجُهَا بِالزَّيْتِ وَالشَّبْرَقِ وَمَا أَشْبَهَ ذَلِكَ إِذَا لَمْ يَكُنْ فِيهِ طِيبٌ ‏.‏ قَالَ مَالِكٌ وَلاَ تَلْبَسُ الْمَرْأَةُ الْحَادُّ عَلَى زَوْجِهَا شَيْئًا مِنَ الْحَلْىِ خَاتَمًا وَلاَ خَلْخَالاً وَلاَ غَيْرَ ذَلِكَ مِنَ الْحَلْىِ وَلاَ تَلْبَسُ شَيْئًا مِنَ الْعَصْبِ إِلاَّ أَنْ يَكُونَ عَصْبًا غَلِيظًا وَلاَ تَلْبَسُ ثَوْبًا مَصْبُوغًا بِشَىْءٍ مِنَ الصِّبْغِ إِلاَّ بِالسَّوَادِ وَلاَ تَمْتَشِطُ إِلاَّ بِالسِّدْرِ وَمَا أَشْبَهَهُ مِمَّا لاَ يَخْتَمِرُ فِي رَأْسِهَا

TOPICS
mourning  *  widow  *  jewellery  *  garments  *  cloth  *  eyes  *  hazr  *  armalah  *  zinah  *  libas

QUICK LESSONS:
Follow certain guidelines such as avoiding wearing jewellery and colourful clothes as a sign of respect towards the deceased person's memory .

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith discusses the etiquette of mourning for a widow. It states that a widow should not wear any jewellery, colourful or striped garments, or cloth dyed with anything except black. Instead of wearing perfumes, she can anoint her eyes with olive oil and sesame oil and the like of that since there is no perfume in it. This hadith teaches us to be respectful when we are mourning someone's death by following certain guidelines such as avoiding wearing jewellery and colourful clothes as a sign of respect towards the deceased person's memory.

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