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Sunan Abi Dawud 2145 (Book 12, Hadith 100) #22436
Avoiding Intercourse with a Recalcitrant Spouse

SUMMARY: The Prophet ﷺ advised to avoid sexual intercourse with a recalcitrant spouse.

Abu Harrah Al Ruqashi reported on the authority of his uncle" The Prophet said "If you fear the recalcitrance abandon them in their beds". The narrator Hammad said "By abandonment he meant abandonment of intercourse".
حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ، عَنْ عَلِيِّ بْنِ زَيْدٍ، عَنْ أَبِي حُرَّةَ الرَّقَاشِيِّ، عَنْ عَمِّهِ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ قَالَ ‏ "‏ فَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ نُشُوزَهُنَّ فَاهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِي الْمَضَاجِعِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ حَمَّادٌ يَعْنِي النِّكَاحَ

TOPICS
abandonment  *  intercourse  *  fear  *  recalcitrance  *  istibra  *  jima  *  khawf  *  inqiyad

QUICK LESSONS:
Respect your partner's wishes even if you disagree; Communicate openly and honestly; Be patient when dealing with difficult situations; Show compassion towards your partner's feelings; Understand each other's perspectives before making decisions together; Avoid physical contact until issues are resolved between both parties involved .

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith is about the importance of avoiding sexual intercourse with a recalcitrant spouse. A recalcitrant spouse is someone who does not obey their partner in marriage or does not follow the rules of marriage. The Prophet Muhammad advised that if one fears this kind of behavior from their partner, they should abandon them in their beds and avoid having intercourse with them. This means that they should not engage in any physical contact or intimacy until the situation has been resolved between them both. It is important to remember that this advice was given by the Prophet Muhammad as a way to protect both partners from any harm or hurt feelings that could arise from such an interaction. It also serves as an example for us all on how we should handle difficult situations within our marriages and relationships, by avoiding physical contact until things have been discussed and resolved between both parties involved.

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