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Sunan an-Nasai 3422 (Book 27, Hadith 34) #18034
Staying Away from Spouse

SUMMARY: Ka'b bin Malik was commanded by the Messenger of Allah to stay away from his wife and not approach her.

Ka'b bin Malik narrated the Hadith about when he stayed behind, and did not join the Messenger of Allah on the expedition to Tabuk. He told the story, and said: "The envoy of the Messenger of Allah came to me and said: 'The Messenger of Allah commands you to stay away from your wife'. I said: 'Shall I divorce her or what?' He said: 'No, just keep away from her and do not approach her'. I said to my wife: 'Go to your family and stay with them until Allah, the Mighty and Sublime, decides concerning this matter'."
أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ حَاتِمِ بْنِ نُعَيْمٍ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مَكِّيِّ بْنِ عِيسَى، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا يُونُسُ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ كَعْبِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ، قَالَ سَمِعْتُ كَعْبَ بْنَ مَالِكٍ، يُحَدِّثُ حَدِيثَهُ حِينَ تَخَلَّفَ عَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ فِي غَزْوَةِ تَبُوكَ وَقَالَ فِيهِ إِذَا رَسُولُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ يَأْتِينِي فَقَالَ إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ح وَأَخْبَرَنِي سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ دَاوُدَ قَالَ أَنْبَأَنَا ابْنُ وَهْبٍ عَنْ يُونُسَ قَالَ ابْنُ شِهَابٍ أَخْبَرَنِي عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ كَعْبِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ أَنَّ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ كَعْبِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ كَعْبَ بْنَ مَالِكٍ يُحَدِّثُ حَدِيثَهُ حِينَ تَخَلَّفَ عَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ فِي غَزْوَةِ تَبُوكَ وَسَاقَ قِصَّتَهُ وَقَالَ إِذَا رَسُولُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ يَأْتِي فَقَالَ إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ يَأْمُرُكَ أَنْ تَعْتَزِلَ امْرَأَتَكَ ‏.‏ فَقُلْتُ أُطَلِّقُهَا أَمْ مَاذَا قَالَ لاَ بَلِ اعْتَزِلْهَا فَلاَ تَقْرَبْهَا ‏.‏ فَقُلْتُ لاِمْرَأَتِي الْحَقِي بِأَهْلِكِ فَكُونِي عِنْدَهُمْ حَتَّى يَقْضِيَ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ فِي هَذَا الأَمْرِ

TOPICS
marriage  *  separation  *  obedience  *  zawaj  *  inqisam  *  taa

QUICK LESSONS:
Obey Prophet Muhammad's commands , Respect marriage , Have faith in God's judgement .
EXPLANATIONS:
In this hadith, Ka’b bin Malik narrates a story about when he stayed away from his wife after being commanded by the Messenger of Allah. He asked if he should divorce her or not and was told to just keep away from her until Allah decides concerning this matter. This hadith teaches us that we must obey the commands of the Prophet Muhammad even if it is difficult for us to do so. We must also trust in Allah's judgement and have faith that He will make things right in His own time. Furthermore, it shows us that marriage is a sacred bond between two people and should be respected even when there are difficulties between them.

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