Leave the grave in its natural state , Focus on remembering Allah , Strive to live a life full of humility & modesty

According to the hadith narrated by Jabir, it is forbidden for Muslims to plaster graves. This means that it is not permissible for Muslims to decorate or beautify the graves of their loved ones with any kind of material such as paint or cement. Instead, they should leave the grave in its natural state and focus on remembering Allah and praying for their deceased loved ones. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ taught us that we should not make a show of our piety by decorating graves but instead focus on our own spiritual development and remembrance of Allah.

This hadith also teaches us about humility and modesty in death as well as life. We should remember that no matter how much wealth or power we have in this world, death will come eventually and all worldly possessions will be left behind. Therefore, we should strive to live a life full of humility and modesty so that when death comes we can face it with dignity without having any regrets about how we lived our lives here on earth.