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Sahih al-Bukhari 6084 (Book 78, Hadith 112) #5841
Divorce and Remarriage in Islam

SUMMARY: A woman who was divorced thrice by her husband, Rifa'a Al-Qurazi, and then married 'Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair came to the Prophet ﷺ for advice. The Prophet ﷺ advised her that she cannot go back to Rifa'a unless she and 'Abdur Rahman have sexual relations.

Narrated 'Aisha: Rifa'a Al-Qurazi divorced his wife irrevocably (ie that divorce was the final). Later on 'Abdur- Rahman bin Az-Zubair married her after him. She came to the Prophet ﷺ and said, "O Allah's Messenger ﷺ! I was Rifa'a's wife and he divorced me thrice, and then I was married to 'Abdur-Rahman bin AzZubair, who, by Allah has nothing with him except something like this fringe, O Allah's Messenger ﷺ," showing a fringe she had taken from her covering sheet. Abu Bakr was sitting with the Prophet ﷺ while Khalid Ibn Sa'id bin Al-As was sitting at the gate of the room waiting for admission. Khalid started calling Abu Bakr, "O Abu Bakr! Why don't you reprove this lady from what she is openly saying before Allah's Apostle?" Allah's Messenger ﷺ did nothing except smiling, and then said (to the lady), "Perhaps you want to go back to Rifa'a? No, (it is not possible), unless and until you enjoy the sexual relation with him ('Abdur Rahman), and he enjoys the sexual relation with you".
حَدَّثَنَا حِبَّانُ بْنُ مُوسَى، أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ، أَخْبَرَنَا مَعْمَرٌ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ـ رضى الله عنها ـ أَنَّ رِفَاعَةَ، الْقُرَظِيَّ طَلَّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ فَبَتَّ طَلاَقَهَا، فَتَزَوَّجَهَا بَعْدَهُ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ الزَّبِيرِ، فَجَاءَتِ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّهَا كَانَتْ عِنْدَ رِفَاعَةَ فَطَلَّقَهَا آخِرَ ثَلاَثِ تَطْلِيقَاتٍ، فَتَزَوَّجَهَا بَعْدَهُ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ الزَّبِيرِ، وَإِنَّهُ وَاللَّهِ مَا مَعَهُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِلاَّ مِثْلُ هَذِهِ الْهُدْبَةِ، لِهُدْبَةٍ أَخَذَتْهَا مِنْ جِلْبَابِهَا‏.‏ قَالَ وَأَبُو بَكْرٍ جَالِسٌ عِنْدَ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ وَابْنُ سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْعَاصِ جَالِسٌ بِبَابِ الْحُجْرَةِ لِيُؤْذَنَ لَهُ، فَطَفِقَ خَالِدٌ يُنَادِي أَبَا بَكْرٍ، يَا أَبَا بَكْرٍ أَلاَ تَزْجُرُ هَذِهِ عَمَّا تَجْهَرُ بِهِ عِنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَمَا يَزِيدُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ عَلَى التَّبَسُّمِ ثُمَّ قَالَ ‏ "‏ لَعَلَّكِ تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ، لاَ، حَتَّى تَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ، وَيَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ
TOPICS
divorce  *  remarriage  *  marriage  *  relations  *  talaaq  *  zawaj

QUICK LESSONS:
Respect your spouse even after divorce has occurred; Maintain a healthy relationship with your former partner; Move forward from past relationships; Follow the advice of Prophet Muhammad when seeking guidance on matters related to marriage & divorce .

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith is about divorce and remarriage in Islam. It is narrated by Aisha that a woman came to the Prophet Muhammad seeking advice on whether or not she could return to her former husband after being divorced three times. The Prophet Muhammad advised her that it would not be possible for her to return unless both parties had sexual relations with each other first. This hadith teaches us the importance of marriage in Islam as well as the importance of respecting one's spouse even after divorce has occurred. It also shows us how important it is for couples to maintain a healthy relationship with each other even if they are no longer married, as this can help them move forward from their past relationship and start anew with someone else if they choose to do so.

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