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Riyad as-Salihin 249 (Book) #38634
The Permissibility of Lying

SUMMARY: Lying is not permissible except in certain cases such as war, reconciling between people, and conversations between spouses.

Umm Kulthum bint 'Uqbah (May Allah be pleased with her) reported: Messenger of Allah said, 'The person who (lies) in order to conciliate between people is not a liar, when he conveys good or says (something) good". Al-Bukhari and Muslim. The narration in Muslim added: She said, "I never heard him (she meant the Prophet ) giving permission of lying in anything except in three (things): war, conciliating between people and the conversation of man with his wife and the conversation of a woman with her husband".
وعن أم كلثوم بنت عقبة بن أبي معيط رضي الله عنها قالت سمعت رسول الله يقول‏:‏ ‏"‏ليس الكذاب الذي يصلح بين الناس فينمي خيرًا، أو يقول خيرًا‏"‏ ‏(‏‏(‏متفق عليه‏)‏‏)‏‏.‏ و في رواية مسلم زيادة، قالت: "و لم اسمعه يرخصه في شيء مما يقوله الناس الا في ثلاث، تعني: الحرب، و الاصلاح بين الناس، و حديث الرجل امراته، و حديث المرأة زوجها".

QUICK LESSONS:
Be honest except under special circumstances such as war or reconciliation efforts; communicate respectfully within relationships; protect oneself & others from harm etc..
EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith from Umm Kulthum bint 'Uqbah explains that lying is generally not permissible in Islam, however there are certain exceptions to this rule. These exceptions include war, reconciling between people, and conversations between spouses. War can be a difficult situation where it may be necessary to lie in order to protect oneself or others from harm. Similarly, when trying to reconcile two parties it may be necessary to tell a white lie in order for the reconciliation process to succeed. Lastly, when talking with one's spouse it is important for both parties to feel comfortable expressing themselves without fear of judgement or criticism; therefore telling a white lie may be necessary at times in order for the conversation to remain positive and productive. In conclusion, while lying is generally not permissible according to Islamic teachings there are certain situations where telling a white lie can actually benefit all involved parties and lead them closer towards peace and harmony with each other.

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