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Riyad as-Salihin 1598 (Book 17, Hadith 88) #38087
The Importance of Inclusion in Conversations

SUMMARY: The hadith is about the importance of not excluding others from a conversation or discussion.

Ibn 'Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) said: the Messenger of Allah said, "In the presence of three people, two should not hold secret counsel, to the exclusion of the third". Al- Bukhari and Muslim. In Abu Dawud, Abu Salih related: I asked Ibn 'Umar: "What if there are four people". He said, "There is no harm in that". Malik reported in Al-Muwatta that 'Abdullah bin Dinar related: Ibn 'Umar and I were together in Khalid bin 'Uqbah's house which was situated in the market place. A man came to consult Ibn 'Umar. None besides me was present. Ibn 'Umar called another man in and we became four and said to me and the man he had called: Move away a bit because I have heard the Messenger of Allah saying, "The two people should not hold secret counsel together excluding the third".
وعن ابن عمر رضي الله عنهما أن رسول الله قال‏:‏ ‏"‏إذا كانوا ثلاثة فلا يتناجى اثنان دون الثالث‏"‏ ‏(‏‏(‏متفق عليه‏)‏‏)‏‏.‏ ‏(‏‏(‏ورواه أبو دواد وزاد‏:‏ قال أبو صالح‏:‏ قلت لابن عمر‏:‏ فأربعة‏؟‏ قال‏:‏ لا يضرك‏.‏ ورواه مالك في الموطأ‏:‏ عن عبد الله بن دينار قال‏:‏ كنت أنا وابن عمر عند دار خالد بن عقبة التي في السوق، فجاء رجل يريد أن يناجيه، وليس مع ابن عمر أحد غيري، فدعا ابن عمر رجلا آخر حتى كنا أربعة فقال لي وللرجل الثالث الذي دعا‏:‏ استأخرا شيئًا، فإني سمعت رسول الله يقول‏:‏ ‏"‏لا يتناجى اثنان دون واحد‏"‏‏.‏

QUICK LESSONS:
Include everyone in conversations and discussions .

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith is about the importance of including everyone in conversations and discussions, rather than excluding someone from it. It was narrated by Ibn Umar and Abu Salih, who both heard it from the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said that two people should not hold secret counsel to the exclusion of a third person, even if there are four people present. This teaches us that we should always be inclusive when having conversations with others, as no one should be left out or excluded from a discussion. We can learn an important lesson here; that we must always strive to include everyone in our conversations so that no one feels left out or excluded.

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