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Riyad as-Salihin 685 (Book 1, Hadith 6) #37174
The Marriage of Hafsah

SUMMARY: Umar offered his daughter Hafsah to Uthman and Abu Bakr for marriage, but they both declined. Later, the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) asked for her hand in marriage and she was married to him.

'Abdullah bin 'Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) reported: My father 'Umar (May Allah be pleased with him) said: When (his daughter) Hafsah (May Allah be pleased with her) became a widow, I met 'Uthman bin 'Affan (May Allah be pleased with him) and offered Hafsah for marriage to him'.Uthman said: "I shall think over the matter". I waited for a few days and then 'Uthman met me and said: "It occurred to me that I should not marry at present". Then I met Abu Bakr (May Allah be pleased with him) and said to him: "If you are willing, I shall marry my daughter Hafsah to you". Abu Bakr (May Allah be pleased with him) remained silent and did not utter any word to me in reply. I grew more angry with him than with 'Uthman. I had waited for only a few days when Messenger of Allah asked for her hand in marriage and I married her to him. Thereafter, I met Abu Bakr (May Allah be pleased with him) who said, "Perhaps you were angry with me when you offered Hafsah to me and I said nothing in reply". I said, "Yes, that is so". He said, "Nothing stopped me to respond to your offer except that I knew that Messenger of Allah had mentioned her and I could not disclose the secret of Messenger of Allah . Had Messenger of Allah left her, I would have accepted her". Al-Bukhari.
وعن عبد الله بن عمر رضي الله عنهما أن عمر رضي الله عنه حين تأيمت بنته حفصة قال‏:‏ لقيت عثمان بن عفان رضي الله عنه ، فعرضت عليه حفصة فقلت‏:‏ إن شئت أنكحتك حفصة بنت عمر‏؟‏ قال‏:‏ سأنظر في أمري‏.‏ فلبثت ليالي، ثم لقيني فقال ‎‏:‏ قد بدا لي أن لا أتزوج يومي هذا‏.‏ فلقيت أبا بكر الصديق رضي الله عنه، فلم يرجع إلى شيئاً‏!‏ فكنت عليه أوجد مني على عثمان، فلبثت ليالي، ثم خطبها النبي ، فأنكحتها إياه‏.‏ فلقيني أبو بكر فقال‏:‏ لعلك وجدت حين عرضت على حفصة فلم أرجع إليك شيئاً‏؟‏ فقلت‏:‏ نعم‏.‏ قال‏:‏ فإنه لم يمنعني أن أرجع إليك فيما عرضت على إلا أني كنت علمت أن النبي ذكرها، فلم أكن لأفشي سر رسول الله ، ولوتركها النبى لقبلتها ‏.‏ ‏(‏‏(‏رواه البخارى‏)‏‏)‏‏.‏

TOPICS
marriage  *  muhammad  *  umar  *  uthman  *  bakr

QUICK LESSONS:
Respect others' wishes , Follow Islamic teachings

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith is about the marriage of Hafsah to the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). Her father 'Umar offered her hand in marriage to both Uthman and Abu Bakr but they both declined due to their knowledge that the Prophet had already expressed interest in marrying her. When it became clear that the Prophet wanted to marry her, 'Umar accepted his proposal and she was married off accordingly. This hadith teaches us about respect for others' wishes as well as loyalty towards our beloved prophet's decisions. It also shows us how important it is for us Muslims to follow what our beloved prophet has said or done as an example of how we should live our lives according to Islamic teachings.

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