Take responsibility for your actions even if they are wrong so that you can make up for them in some way .

This hadith is about a man who pronounced dhihar from his wife before he married her. Dhihar is an Arabic term which means to declare that someone is like a forbidden relative to you and cannot be married or have any kind of relationship with them. In this case, the man was told by al-Qasim ibn Muhammad and Sulayman ibn Yasar that if he marries her, he must not touch her until he has done the kaffarah for pronouncing dhihar. Kaffarah is an Arabic term which means expiation or atonement for a sin committed in Islam and can be done through various acts such as fasting or giving charity. This hadith teaches us that we should not make any promises we cannot keep and should take responsibility for our actions even if they are wrong so that we can make up for them in some way.