Take responsibility and repent when you have wronged someone else or yourself in order to make amends and restore balance in your lives .

This hadith is about the kaffara of dhihar. Dhihar is when someone says something that makes something or someone haram for them. In this case, it was a man who said that if he married a certain woman then she would be haram for him. Umar ibn al-Khattab ordered him not to go near her if he married her until he had done the kaffara for pronouncing dhihar. The kaffara is an act of repentance and atonement in order to make up for any wrongdoings or sins committed by an individual. It can involve acts such as fasting, charity work or pilgrimage depending on what has been committed and how severe it was. This hadith teaches us that we should take responsibility and repent when we have wronged someone else or ourselves in order to make amends and restore balance in our lives.