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Jami at-Tirmidhi 3343 (Book 47, Hadith 395) #28992
Respect Your Spouse and Refrain from Laughter

SUMMARY: This hadith is about the Prophet advising against mistreating one's wife and laughing at passing gas.

Abdullah bin Zam’ah said: "One day, I heard the Prophet while he was mentioning the she-camel and the one who killed her. He said: 'When their most wicked went forth.’ A strong and mighty man who was invincible among his tribe, like Zam’ah, went forth for her.’ Then I heard him mentioning the women, so he said: 'One of you should not lash his wife as a slave is lashed, for perhaps he will lay with her at the end of the day.’" He said: "Then he advised against laughing when passing gas, he said: 'One of you should not laugh at what he himself does.’"
حَدَّثَنَا هَارُونُ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ الْهَمْدَانِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدَةُ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ زَمْعَةَ، قَالَ سَمِعْتُ النَّبِيَّ يَوْمًا يَذْكُرُ النَّاقَةَ وَالَّذِي عَقَرَهَا فَقَالَ ‏"‏ِ ‏:‏ ‏(‏إذ انْبَعَثَ أَشْقَاهَا ‏)‏ انْبَعَثَ لَهَا رَجُلٌ عَارِمٌ عَزِيزٌ مَنِيعٌ فِي رَهْطِهِ مِثْلُ أَبِي زَمْعَةَ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ ثُمَّ سَمِعْتُهُ يَذْكُرُ النِّسَاءَ فَقَالَ ‏"‏ إِلاَمَ يَعْمِدُ أَحَدُكُمْ فَيَجْلِدُ امْرَأَتَهُ جَلْدَ الْعَبْدِ وَلَعَلَّهُ أَنْ يُضَاجِعَهَا مِنْ آخِرِ يَوْمِهِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ ثُمَّ وَعَظَهُمْ فِي ضَحِكِهِمْ مِنَ الضَّرْطَةِ فَقَالَ ‏"‏ إِلاَمَ يَضْحَكُ أَحَدُكُمْ مِمَّا يَفْعَلُ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ

TOPICS
respect  *  spouse  *  laughter  *  gas  *  adab  *  zawj  *  dahk  *  hawa

QUICK LESSONS:
Treating your spouse kindly; Taking responsibility for your own actions; Being respectful towards others; Refraining from inappropriate laughter in public settings

EXPLANATIONS:
In this hadith, the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ was discussing a story of a she-camel that was killed by a strong man from his tribe. He then went on to advise against mistreating one's spouse, saying that one should not lash their wife as if they were a slave. He also advised against laughing when passing gas, saying that it is not appropriate to laugh at something you yourself do. This hadith teaches us to respect our spouses and refrain from inappropriate laughter in public settings. It also reminds us of the importance of treating others with kindness and compassion, regardless of their social status or gender. We should always strive to be respectful in our interactions with others, even if we disagree with them or find ourselves in uncomfortable situations. Additionally, this hadith serves as an important reminder for us to take responsibility for our own actions and not make fun of ourselves or others for things we all do naturally like passing gas!

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