Respect your deceased loved ones by expressing your grief in an appropriate manner .

This hadith is about mourning etiquette for widows. The Prophet advised women whose husbands have died to not wear clothes dyed with safflower or red clay, and to not use dye or kohl. This was a way of showing respect for their deceased husband and also a way of expressing grief in a dignified manner. It is important that we remember our loved ones who have passed away in an appropriate manner that honors them and shows respect for their memory. We should also be mindful of how we express our grief so as not to cause distress or hurt others around us.