Consider what is best for children; allow them autonomy in decision making where possible; be kind towards your spouse even if you are in disagreement with them; seek peaceful resolutions without involving third parties such as courts or judges .

This hadith tells us about a dispute between a husband and wife over their son. The woman came to the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) for help, as her husband wanted to take away their son from her. However, she mentioned that her husband helps her and brings water from the well of Abu 'Inabah for them both. In response, the Prophet asked the boy which parent he wanted to go with - his father or mother - and he chose his mother's hand. This shows us that even in disputes between parents, it is important to consider what is best for children and allow them to make decisions on their own behalf when possible. It also teaches us that we should be kind towards our spouses even if we are in disagreement with them; this kindness can help resolve disputes peacefully without involving third parties such as courts or judges.