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Israfil 
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 Posted: 08 April 2006 at 1:16pm |
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That is a good point Rami brought up from Hadith. Shyness is a quality which also shows the person ability of being humble. Also being shy llows some mystery to be involved without expressing oneself entirely.
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salman
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Posted: 09 April 2006 at 4:09am |
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brother Israfil, can you elaborate on this topic ' shyness '?
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It is better to be alone than to be in bad company.
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Israfil
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Posted: 09 April 2006 at 5:14pm |
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Wa alaikum Salaam Salman, the topic is not about shyness but about the qualities that are important in a woman. Also before I answer you let me remind the brothers that I difn't mention deen as a quality here because I assume that we all know that a woman's deen and her Iman are important. Now to answer your question Salman what do I mean by shyness? Well Rami brought up that quality and I merely commented in saying that, that too is a good quality to have. A woman who is shy is not as forthcoming about herself than a woman who is not shy. Being forthcoming is not a bad quality, but without revealing much of herself and her character it leaves a mystery which allows ambition on the man's part to exist and it gives the man more ambition ot get to know the woman better. He strives to know her. Know things about her and strives to be the things she detest. |
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ak_m_f
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Posted: 09 April 2006 at 5:35pm |
I thought taht salman was talking about point number 1. Main Entry: shy Pronunciation: 'shI Function: adjective Inflected Form(s): shi�er or shy�er /'shI(-&)r/; shi�est or shy�est /'shI-&st/ Etymology: Middle English schey, from Old English scEoh; akin to Old High German sciuhen to frighten off 1 : easily frightened : TIMID 2 : disposed to avoid a person or thing <publicity shy> <book-shy children> 3 : hesitant in committing oneself : CIRCUMSPECT 4 : sensitively diffident or retiring : RESERVED <a shy seclusive person>; also : expressive of such a state or nature <spoke in a shy voice> 5 : SECLUDED, HIDDEN 6 : having less than the full or specified amount or number : SHORT <just shy of six feet tall> <the stew is a little shy of seasoning> 7 : DISREPUTABLE <gambling hells and shy saloons -- Blackwood's> - shy�ly adverb - shy�ness noun synonyms SHY, BASHFUL, DIFFIDENT, MODEST, COY mean not inclined to be forward. SHY implies a timid reserve and a shrinking from familiarity or contact with others <shy with strangers>. BASHFUL implies a frightened or hesitant shyness characteristic of childhood and adolescence <a bashful boy out on his first date>. DIFFIDENT stresses a distrust of one's own ability or opinion that causes hesitation in acting or speaking <felt diffident about raising an objection>. MODEST suggests absence of undue confidence or conceit <very modest about her achievements>. COY implies an assumed or affected shyness <put off by her coy manner>. |
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salman
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Posted: 15 April 2006 at 6:24am |
assalamualaikum brother israfil you missed one very important point. a muslim woman should be religious and pious. |
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It is better to be alone than to be in bad company.
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Israfil
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Posted: 16 April 2006 at 10:39am |
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Well Salman I left that out because I feel that it is common sense for an observant Muslim man that, hat are important qualities that he should look for in a woman.
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fistofallah
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Posted: 16 April 2006 at 4:18pm |
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First and foremost, a woman needs to know her place. Allah, peace and blessings upon him, saw to it that this world will be ruled by men.
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Jenni
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Posted: 17 April 2006 at 5:52pm |
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fistofallah, mayge you men need to start doing a better job, it seems to me you have really messed it up for all of us women, children and the elderly!!!
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You cant be a good muslim if you are not decent and have a cold heart. Be a decent and kind person and care for women and children and the elderly.
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