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Tazmanian Devil 
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 Topic: Your views on male/female friendshipsPosted: 14 July 2006 at 3:04am |
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a-yo peeps salamz>>> dnt worry>>>no offence given...no offence taken...sowi man but elegance aint ma thang....neva been 'elegnant' and prob neva will B...lol...I am who I am...sowi ab8 dat... PEACE OUT>>>> |
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fatima
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Posted: 13 July 2006 at 4:04am |
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Bismillah irrahman irrahim Wa'alaikum assalam wa rahmatullahe wa barakatuhu
MashaAllah for a 14 years old, you got very deep understanding. May Allah swt keep you on His straight path. just a question and hope you dont mind hun, dont you think a lady should have an elegance about her? cool dude attitude suites non-muslim tom boyish people but mashaAllah you are a muslimah who cares bout her deen. Just a thought, hope you forgive me if it offends you, actually living in UK i might be able to come and personally say sorry wassalam
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Say: (O Muhammad) If you love Allah, then follow me, Allah will love you and forgive you your faults, and Allah is Forgiving, MercifuL
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Suleyman
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Posted: 13 July 2006 at 12:36am |
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Tazmanian Devil
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Posted: 12 July 2006 at 3:24pm |
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SALAMZ>>> Ok...how am I gonna say this??? Talkin 2 da opposite sex is HARAAM fullstop. You make a friend wid them..and den u say...'were just mates'...but its not lyk dat.Islam has already laid down the rules and its not 4 us 2 change things according 2 our opinions. A friendship may sound innocent but the rules of Allah have a lot of logic behind them...FEAR ALLAH. People give up bare things 4 islam...their famillies,wealth...and even their LIFE...giving up a friendship is nothing...making friends wid da opposite sex is NOT ok...no matter what ne1 may think...
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Amirul
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Posted: 19 May 2006 at 6:45pm |
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T make friend with the opposite sex is ok as long you take care your self.I cant touch the other sex because it is haram.
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ASHI
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Posted: 17 March 2006 at 9:39pm |
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Salaam sister Fatima thank u for providing me with ur suggestions...have conveyed the same 2 my friend,..... we all dont know wot's in store for my friend....lets hope for the best..inshallah everything will be alright.... n hey its ok that u cudnt change the font.... JazaakAllah khair. |
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fatima
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Posted: 09 March 2006 at 4:37am |
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Bismillah irrahman irrahim waa'alaikum assalam JazakAllah khair for not getting offended for that was the only way i could have put it, now there is a hadith about 'The grey areas' the matters which are neither haram and nor are they put in halal category, Sayyidina Muhammad (saw) said that it is like a person leaves his herd of sheep graze near a land of a king. now this person can't control each n every single sheep and if one of em strays onto forbidden area, this person is blameworthy, but same time we also know the hadith that actions are by intention. the reason me mentioning it here is alhamdulillah showing some1 the straight path is noblest of causes but sister needs to ask herself, would she have tried in the same manner if she was not interested in the guy? is she trying to bring some1 in fold of this beautiful deen bcos our Lord, the Majestic deserves to be recognized and worshiped by each n every sould r is she doing it to make this guy halal for herself? is the guy only interested in Islam bcos he is interested in this sister r is he a seeker of truth? sister needs to ask herself these question knowing the fact 'We created man and We know what dark suggestions his soul makes to him and We are nearer to him than his jugular vein'. (50:16) Honestly sis, we all get so confused in this word 'love' true love is only for Allah swt and for sake of Allah swt, if this sister can leave anything n anyone including family, deen and her lord then she loves him, otherwise its likeness r attachment any1 feels for a nice person if u talk to him r her constantly, take it from some1 who's been there honestly once in prayer ask ur lord sincerely that u have fallen short, fell into something which is not allowed and no one is there to help u but Allah swt as He has power to change hearts and pray that ur heart settles and gets peace with whateva is good for u with ur lord, for this world n next and then refrain from disallowed and if this person is meant to be then it will be, and im sure there are going to b practising brothers around if u think guy is sincere in his quest or even he is on a quest for truth then direct him to a knowledgealble brother and pray for goodness for both of u, because if he reverts even if he dont end up wiv u, for rest of his life u get share of rewards for whateva good he does without his reward lessenin a bit, so subhanAllah just remember this sis that shaytan runs in our veins like blood and only way to deal wiv his whisperin is seek refuge in The One who sees him and tackles with him where we cant, say to the sister that give place in ur heart to The Lord of everything that exist and inshaAllah matters will become easier for this sister wassalam p.s. sorry bout font i cudn't find a way to change it back |
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ASHI
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Posted: 09 March 2006 at 1:24am |
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Wslm Sister Fatima, ur words r really hard hitting n made me think about this...i conveyed the same 2 my friend n she was upset bout it for a long time.... first of all wud like 2 clarify that these 2 people never use 2 speak...though the guy always seemed 2 be interested in her...they r colleagues...they somehow started chatting online n their friendship bloomed, eventhough they still dont directly speak 2 each other much... but wotever u said is right...i mean 4 him God is not imp since he is an atheist n naturally its easy 4 him 2 convert....but my friend says wot is wrong if he converts n if ther's a possibility of she convincing him bout the existence of Allah swt....wot if he really starts believing in islam?? i know this is not easy n v v risky though...... i know my friend can find better suitors 4 herself...but then she too loves him....n by love she means she really cares bout the guy n wants 2 live with him..n cannot think of marrying some1 else..since he has already occupied a place in her heart..... |
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Tazmanian Devil wrote:
i cud read n understand it n that is more than enough i guess....