How to be a Successful Muslim Wife |
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Truth_light24
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Here are the tips on 'How to be a Successful Muslim Wife' 1. Use your 'Fitnah' (beauty and overtures of allurement) to win the heart of your husband. All women have the ornaments that Allah blessed them with. Use the beauty Allah has bestowed you with to win the heart of your husband. 2. When your husband comes home, greet him with a wonderful greeting. Imagine your husband coming home to a clean house, an exquisitely dressed wife, a dinner prepared with care, children clean and sweet smelling, a clean bedroom - what would this do to his love for you? Now imagine what the opposite does to him. 3. Review the characteristics of the Hoor Al-Ayn and try to imitate them The Qur'an and Sunnah describe the women in Jannah with certain characteristics. Such as the silk they wear, their large dark eyes, their singing to their husband, etc. Try it, wear silk for your husband, put Kohl in your eyes to 'enlarge' them, and sing to your husband. 4. Always wear jewellery and dress up in the house. From the early years, little girls have adorned themselves with earrings and bracelets and worn pretty dresses - as described in the Qur'an. As a wife, continue to use the jewellery that you have and the pretty dresses for your husband. 5. Joke and play games with your husband. A mans secret: they seek women who are light-hearted and have a sense of humour. As Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - told Jabir to marry someone who would make him laugh and he would make her laugh. 6. Thank your husband constantly for the nice things he does. Then thank him again. This is one of the most important techniques, as the opposite is a characteristic of the women of hellfire. 7. An argument is a fire in the house. Extinguish it with a simple 'I'm sorry' even if it is not your fault. When you fight back, you are only adding wood to the fire. Watch how sweetly an argument will end when you just say sincerely, "Look, I'm sorry. Let's be friends." 8. Always seek to please your husband, for he is your key to Jannah. Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - taught us that any women who dies in a state where her husband is pleased with her, shall enter Jannah. So .. please him. 9. Listen and Obey! Obeying your husband is Fard! Your husband is the Ameer of the household. Give him that right and respect. 10. Make Dua to Allah to make your marriage and relationship successful. All good
things are from Allah. Never forget to ask Allah ta'ala for the blessing of
having a successful marriage that begins in this Dunya and continues on - by
the Mercy of Allah ta'ala - into Jannah. One more thing, my mom said the best way to a man's heart is
through his stomach...so feed him good.. Make him fat |
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And those who annoy believing men and women undeservedly, bear (on themselves) a calumny and a glaring sin. Quran33:59
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Edited by infomagination - 20 November 2009 at 12:24am |
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"One morning or evening in the path of Allah is better than the world and all it contains. A hand-span or a whip's length of Jannat is better that the world and all it contains..."Sayings of Nabi(SAW)
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Sign*Reader
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Feeding the hubby nicely is great and there are foods that are well known for the well being of the old man but making him fat can't be one of them! Fat also mean - diabetes, heart disease and everything in between which includes early departure from this world also. It is a guaranteed to send love business south I mean all the way to Antarctica! I hope your mom didn't mean that Edited by Sign*Reader |
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Kismet Domino: Faith/Courage/Liberty/Abundance/Selfishness/Immorality/Apathy/Bondage or extinction.
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Were you compatible in your personalities? that makes or breaks most marriages these days! |
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Truth_light24
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Well sis S.R., maybe that sayings of my mom can only be applied to Asian coz my people likes to eat a lot and only a few become fat particularly from where I come from...
Mom said, try to make your husband feel at home with you, make him feel that his home is in you and he will never leave your side. Love whom he loves particularly his parents because once you did that, he will love you even better and never ever betray you... |
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And those who annoy believing men and women undeservedly, bear (on themselves) a calumny and a glaring sin. Quran33:59
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I tried all the above - and still my husband want to divorce me.... WEl then you were a succesful wife.. he was a failure as a husband. Can we see the "how to be a successful Muslim husband" now... |
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When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi
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Aminah07 Juma tul Mubbarak to you too BTW Did you really want to repeat the post that many times I see copied 4 times! Maybe some thing funny with your computer! Edited by Sign*Reader |
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