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Shema 
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 Topic: what do men really wantPosted: 04 March 2010 at 2:58pm |
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i thjink your hus is looking for excuses to make youi understand that he is gone forever so pls move on
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haris30432
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Posted: 20 February 2010 at 12:45am |
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Peace, Well that depends on what kind of a man he is.If he is a believer and is looking for a partner,he would obviously look for a believeing woman.Race,culture,wealth etc etc becomes secondary.And most importantly GOD commands us to marry believing ppl.This would give us peace and happiness in our married life.Now coming back to your situation,i would say that there is no need for you to be in an argument with your ex.If you are remarried,this might upset your current husband.If you have a child with your ex,the contact should only be for the sake of him being able to meet his child or sending money or whatever according to the agreement reached between the both of you during the divorce.I dont understand whats the need for someone to discuss the reasons for divorce after it has already happened and both of the parties are already married again. its not even about these men anymore. its about me and the way i conduct myself in relationships. it took me some time to do some self reflection and i realise that i gave these men the licence to hurt me and do what they did to me. i needed to recover from past patterens of behaviour or else i will find myself repeating past mistakes and getting the same end results, no matter which man im married to.
Those who follow GOD's law will have happiness here and in the hereafter
[10:62] Absolutely, GOD's allies have nothing to fear, nor will they grieve.
[10:64] For them, joy and happiness in this world, as well as in the Hereafter. This is GOD's unchangeable law. Such is the greatest triumph. [13:29] Those who believe and lead a righteous life have deserved happiness and a joyous destiny. Peace! Edited by haris30432 - 20 February 2010 at 12:47am |
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ONE GOD ONE SOURCE OF LAW!
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Samir_Abdul
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Posted: 19 February 2010 at 10:53am |
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what men want???? my answer to the question for me personally, is a companion that i can share my physical, mental,spirtual life with....some one who relates to me on a wide variety of cultural,educational, economical, and spirtual values...
and pretty face is always good...
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Samir_Abdul
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Posted: 07 December 2009 at 1:52pm |
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im a man and i can say one of the most important things a woman can show me is loyality...
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fais
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Posted: 27 October 2009 at 6:07am |
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Salam,
Brother i am the starter of the topic 'I wanna save my marraige' in family matters,my wife left me cause she stopped loving and the main reason she gave was she felt a repelling smell from me when i was arround and this made her hate sex.she assumed this to be a message from allah that its time for us to apart,brother its a love marraige and i left the whole world behind to marry her but suddenly just 2months back she demanded for talaq and finally she took it.i still cant imagine what went wrong i tried my best to save this marraige but she never bothered to solve this smell problem.
i like your question'Did you walk away from this relationship satisfied that you on your part did everything you could to sustain this relationship?i did everything but she just thought of walking out i dont know what was her main reason but she is gone forever,i love her still but she dont,she said sheloved me till one year back but now she dont love me at all,is it possible.
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rookaiya
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Posted: 11 April 2007 at 11:13pm |
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its not even about these men anymore. its about me and the way i conduct myself in relationships. it took me some time to do some self reflection and i realise that i gave these men the licence to hurt me and do what they did to me. i needed to recover from past patterens of behaviour or else i will find myself repeating past mistakes and getting the same end results, no matter which man im married to. recovery is a slow process but in the end its worth it. |
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"so surely with every difficulty there is relief. Surely with every difficulty there is relief. Surah 94. verses 5 and 6
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Megatron
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Posted: 11 April 2007 at 11:08pm |
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Life is all about balance. Don't forsake your mother and forget about her but you should realize that when you get married that you must also pay attention to your husbands wants and needs which could confilct with your mother's. If your mother was understanding she would realize that she's raised you and you have your own life to lead. |
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.:: SoHaIB ::.
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Posted: 24 March 2007 at 8:48am |
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All men r not the same just as all women are not same. This one's retarded though
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. Cousin and husband....now thats a real dozzyy ... hope u get a new job, cuz that seems to be the only solution rr u can just hit him and tell him to stop bugging u 