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mami
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I hate men who has no control over his life, what a person he wants to be, his lack of knowledge in religion, his uncertainty, his action first and think later attitude, his no sincere of love and care, his selfishness, his brain works according to his own convenience. My advice: it is up to the woman who face what and if she can be happy with him or without him.
I admire a man who do not thinks about himself, but what his wife's needs, and what makes her comfort and happy and respectful, would comeback to him. He acts according to Islamic teaching, of patience and loving, as exampled by the Prophet SAW. He provides, he teach, and not being silly. But my understanding of these, is too late, so i hope other women would marry right and not wrong. Edited by mami - 10 March 2015 at 8:53am |
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Nausheen
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Three divorces ARE valid, given in heat of the moment, or under the effect of intoxication or otherwise.
Allah hates divorce, and it is not a thing to be treated lightly. Maulana Tariq Jameel is invalid. |
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<font color=purple>Wanu nazzilu minal Qurani ma huwa
Shafaa un wa rahmatun lil mo'mineena wa la yaziduzzalimeena illa khasara.[/COLOR] |
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aminahV17
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As Salaam Alaykum: It's with great sadness that I report that my husband and I have not been able to work out our differences on him marrying another woman, therefore, we are parting ways. He told me that he's going to marry her soon and that he is not divorcing me. I'm moving out this Friday at his insistence and I'm just beside myself as I want to do the right thing islamically.
He insists that I move out on April 3, 2015 so he can marry the other woman. I told him I would, but don't be mean to me in the process. We can be civil toward one another through this difficult time. He sends texts to my phone saying he hopes I move out by April 3rd so he can be with his other woman.
I'm hurt, but I don't want who don't want me, furthermore, he still does not take care of me. He now have a part-time job and told me that he's doing what Allah has allowed him to do.
What I want to know is, how long do I have to stay married to him before I ask for a divorce, islamically? Please advise. Salaam Alaykum
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Abu Loren
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Alaykum Asalaam Yes it does look like that your husband doesn't need you anymore as he is blinded by his love/lust for this new woman. In that respect a divorce would be the best course of action. There are strict rules on divorce in Sharia Law, for example there are waiting periods after a divorce and the husband is still expected to provide for his wife until then. I would advise you to seek help from an Imam. |
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La Ilaha IllAllah
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mami
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assalammualaikum
You have no problem. The guy is a piece of gabbage. Be glad he is OUT of your life. From now on be VERRY HAPPY that you dont live with an I D iot. Celebrate being a true woman with value, class, respect. Dont accept just any man but a man with good character. Please no more whinning. |
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