Obey Allah & His Messenger; Practice patience & resilience; Refrain from slapping one's face; Do not bewail; Do not tear your clothes out of sorrow or distress .

This hadith is about a woman who took a pledge of allegiance at the hand of the Messenger of Allah (PBUH). The pledge was that she would not disobey him in any Ma’ruf. Ma’ruf is an Arabic term which means all that Islam ordains. This includes refraining from slapping one's face, bewailing, tearing clothes and hair in grief. This hadith teaches us about obedience to Allah and His Messenger as well as self-control when faced with difficult situations or emotions. It also encourages us to practice patience and resilience instead of resorting to extreme measures such as wailing or tearing our clothes out of sorrow or distress. We should remember that Allah has promised us reward for those who are patient during times of difficulty and hardship.