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(Book 29, Hadith 10) #36227
Divorce Advice from Abdullah ibn Umar

SUMMARY: A man asked Abdullah ibn Umar for advice on a situation where his wife had divorced herself, and Ibn Umar advised that it was as she said.

Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that a man came to Abdullah ibn Umar, and said, "Abu Abd ar-Rahman! I placed the command of my wife in her hand, and she divorced herself, what do you think?" Abdullah ibn Umar said, "I think that it is as she said". The man said, "Don't do it, Abu Abd ar-Rahman!" Ibn Umar said, "You did it, it has nothing to do with me".
حَدَّثَنِي يَحْيَى، عَنْ مَالِكٍ، أَنَّهُ بَلَغَهُ أَنَّ رَجُلاً، جَاءَ إِلَى عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ فَقَالَ يَا أَبَا عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ إِنِّي جَعَلْتُ أَمْرَ امْرَأَتِي فِي يَدِهَا فَطَلَّقَتْ نَفْسَهَا فَمَاذَا تَرَى فَقَالَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ عُمَرَ أُرَاهُ كَمَا قَالَتْ ‏.‏ فَقَالَ الرَّجُلُ لاَ تَفْعَلْ يَا أَبَا عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ ‏.‏ فَقَالَ ابْنُ عُمَرَ أَنَا أَفْعَلُ أَنْتَ فَعَلْتَهُ

TOPICS
divorce  *  advice  *  marriage  *  talaaq  *  naseeha  *  nikah

QUICK LESSONS:
Seek advice in difficult situations , Respect others' decisions , Take marriage seriously .

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith is about a man who came to Abdullah ibn Umar for advice regarding his wife's divorce. The man asked Ibn Umar not to do it, but Ibn Umar replied that the decision was already made and he had nothing to do with it. This hadith teaches us the importance of seeking advice when faced with difficult decisions in life and also reminds us of the importance of respecting other people's decisions even if we don't agree with them. It also shows us how important marriage is in Islam and how seriously we should take our marital commitments.

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