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Jami at-Tirmidhi 1997 (Book 27, Hadith 103) #27630
Moderation in Love and Hate

SUMMARY: Love and hate should be done in moderation, as people's feelings can change over time.

Muhammad bin Sirin narrated from Abu Hurairah - and I think he (narrated it from the Prophet) who said: "Love your beloved moderately, perhaps he becomes hated to you someday. And hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he becomes your beloved someday".
حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو كُرَيْبٍ، حَدَّثَنَا سُوَيْدُ بْنُ عَمْرٍو الْكَلْبِيُّ، عَنْ حَمَّادِ بْنِ سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ أَيُّوبَ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سِيرِينَ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، أُرَاهُ رَفَعَهُ قَالَ ‏ "‏ أَحْبِبْ حَبِيبَكَ هَوْنًا مَا عَسَى أَنْ يَكُونَ بَغِيضَكَ يَوْمًا مَا وَأَبْغِضْ بَغِيضَكَ هَوْنًا مَا عَسَى أَنْ يَكُونَ حَبِيبَكَ يَوْمًا مَا ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ غَرِيبٌ لاَ نَعْرِفُهُ بِهَذَا الإِسْنَادِ إِلاَّ مِنْ هَذَا الْوَجْهِ ‏.‏ وَقَدْ رُوِيَ هَذَا الْحَدِيثُ عَنْ أَيُّوبَ بِإِسْنَادٍ غَيْرِ هَذَا رَوَاهُ الْحَسَنُ بْنُ أَبِي جَعْفَرٍ وَهُوَ حَدِيثٌ ضَعِيفٌ أَيْضًا بِإِسْنَادٍ لَهُ عَنْ عَلِيٍّ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ وَالصَّحِيحُ عَنْ عَلِيٍّ مَوْقُوفٌ قَوْلُهُ

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moderation  *  love  *  hate  *  mahabbah  *  karahiyyah  *  ittisal

QUICK LESSONS:
Practice moderation when expressing both love and hate

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith teaches us the importance of moderation when it comes to love and hate. We should not love someone too much, as our feelings may change over time. Similarly, we should not hate someone too much either, as our feelings may also change towards them in the future. The Prophet Muhammad is teaching us to be mindful of our emotions and to keep them balanced so that we can maintain healthy relationships with others. This hadith also encourages us to forgive those who have wronged us, even if it is difficult at first. By doing this, we can create a more harmonious environment for ourselves and those around us.

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