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Jami at-Tirmidhi 1996 (Book 27, Hadith 102) #27629
The Virtue of Politeness

SUMMARY: The hadith is about the importance of being polite and courteous to people, even if they have a bad reputation.

Aisha narrated: "A man sought permission to enter upon the Messenger of Allah while I was with him, so he said: 'What an evil son of his tribe, or brother of his tribe'. Then he admitted him and spoke with him. When he left, I said: 'O Messenger of Allah! You said what you said about him. Then you talked politely with him?' He said: 'O 'Aishah! Indeed among the evilest of people are those whom the people avoid, or who the people leave, fearing his filthy speech'."
حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَبِي عُمَرَ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْمُنْكَدِرِ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ بْنِ الزُّبَيْرِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتِ اسْتَأْذَنَ رَجُلٌ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ وَأَنَا عِنْدَهُ فَقَالَ ‏"‏ بِئْسَ ابْنُ الْعَشِيرَةِ أَوْ أَخُو الْعَشِيرَةِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ ثُمَّ أَذِنَ لَهُ فَأَلاَنَ لَهُ الْقَوْلَ فَلَمَّا خَرَجَ قُلْتُ لَهُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ قُلْتَ لَهُ مَا قُلْتَ ثُمَّ أَلَنْتَ لَهُ الْقَوْلَ ‏.‏ فَقَالَ ‏"‏ يَا عَائِشَةُ إِنَّ مِنْ شَرِّ النَّاسِ مَنْ تَرَكَهُ النَّاسُ أَوْ وَدَعَهُ النَّاسُ اتِّقَاءَ فُحْشِهِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ

TOPICS
politeness  *  respect  *  avoidance  *  speech  *  adab  *  ihtiram  *  alnasibayn  *  kalam

QUICK LESSONS:
Be kind and respectful towards everyone regardless of their reputation; avoid speaking ill about anyone; avoid associating yourself with those who are known for their foul language or behavior; be mindful in your words and actions when interacting with others.

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith highlights the importance of politeness and respect in our interactions with others. It teaches us that we should not judge people based on their reputation or what others say about them, but rather treat them with kindness and courtesy regardless. Even if someone has a bad reputation, we should still be polite to them and not speak ill of them. We should also avoid associating with those who are known for their foul language or behavior, as this can lead to negative consequences for ourselves as well. This hadith reminds us that it is important to be mindful of our words and actions when interacting with others, so that we can maintain good relationships with everyone around us.

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