Show compassion and kindness towards those who are grieving; Remember our loved ones with respect and dignity; Follow common practices during mourning such as qasaamah or istisqaa'.

The hadith narrated by 'Abdullah bin Ja'far tells us about the Prophet Muhammad's (SAW) compassion and kindness towards the family of Ja'far after his death. After three days, he visited them and told them not to weep for him anymore. He then asked for his brother's sons to be brought before him, who were described as being like little chicks. He then ordered that their heads be shaved as a sign of mourning, which was a common practice at that time known as qasaamah or istisqaa'. This hadith teaches us about how we should show compassion and kindness towards those who are grieving, even if it is something small like shaving their heads or offering words of comfort. It also shows us how important it is to remember our loved ones who have passed away with respect and dignity.