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Sunan an-Nasai 3408 (Book 27, Hadith 20) #18020
Patience and Understanding in Marriage

SUMMARY: The hadith is about the importance of patience and understanding in marriage.

It was narrated that 'Aishah said: "The wife of Rifa'ah Al-Qurazi came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'O Messenger of Allah! I got married to 'Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zabir, and what he has is like this fringe'. The Messenger of Allah said: 'Perhaps you want to go back to Rifa'ah? No, not until he ('Abdur-Rahman) tastes your sweetness and you taste his sweetness'."
أَخْبَرَنِي عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْحَكَمِ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا شُعَيْبُ بْنُ اللَّيْثِ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي أَيُّوبُ بْنُ مُوسَى، عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةُ رِفَاعَةَ الْقُرَظِيِّ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنِّي نَكَحْتُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ الزَّبِيرِ وَاللَّهِ مَا مَعَهُ إِلاَّ مِثْلَ هَذِهِ الْهُدْبَةِ ‏.‏ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ‏ "‏ لَعَلَّكِ تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ لاَ حَتَّى يَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ وَتَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ

TOPICS
marriage  *  patience  *  understanding  *  nikah  *  sabr  *  fikr

QUICK LESSONS:
Be patient with your partner during your relationship; Appreciate your partner's character over material possessions; Take time for two people to get used to each other's habits and personalities before they can truly appreciate one another; Understand one another fully before making any decisions about leaving or staying together; Seek advice from wise people when facing difficult situations in relationships.

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith speaks to the importance of patience and understanding in marriage. It was narrated by 'Aishah that a woman came to the Prophet Muhammad and said she was married to a man who did not have much money. The Prophet advised her not to leave her husband until they both tasted each other's sweetness. This means that it takes time for two people to get used to each other's habits and personalities before they can truly appreciate one another. It also implies that couples should be patient with each other during this process as it may take some time for them to understand one another fully. Furthermore, this hadith teaches us that even if someone does not have much money or material possessions, their character is still important when considering marriage partners as it is through understanding one another that true happiness can be found in a relationship.

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