Be mindful when speaking about others; Respect other people's decisions; Use your words carefully; Speak kindly to one another; Think before you speak; Avoid gossiping or spreading rumors; Do not judge people based on their actions alone .

This hadith speaks to the power and importance of our words. It is narrated by Ibn al-Qasim on the authority of his father that 'Urwa b. Zubair asked 'A'isha about a woman who was divorced by her husband with an irrevocable divorce and left her husband's house. When A'isha commented negatively on this woman, Urwa reminded her that she should not speak ill of others as Fatima had said before her. This teaches us that we should always be mindful when speaking about others and respect their decisions even if we do not agree with them. We must remember that our words have power and can cause harm or hurt feelings if used carelessly or without thoughtfulness for how they may affect another person's feelings or reputation.