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Sahih Muslim 1460b (Book 17, Hadith 55) #10759
Kindness and Respect in Marriage

SUMMARY: The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) showed kindness and respect to his wife Umm Salama by offering her the choice of spending either a week or three nights with him.

Ibn Abu Bakr b. Abd al-Rahman reported that when Allah's Messenger married Umm Salama and she stayed with him (during the night), and it was dawn, he (the Holy Prophet) said to her: There is no lack of estimation for you on the part of your husband. So if you desire I can spend a week with you, and if you like I may spend three (nights). and then I will visit you in turn. She said: Spend three (nights).
حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ يَحْيَى، قَالَ قَرَأْتُ عَلَى مَالِكٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ، الْمَلِكِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ ‏{‏ عَنْ أَبِيهِ، ‏}‏ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ حِينَ تَزَوَّجَ أَمَّ سَلَمَةَ وَأَصْبَحَتْ عِنْدَهُ قَالَ لَهَا ‏ "‏ لَيْسَ بِكِ عَلَى أَهْلِكِ هَوَانٌ إِنْ شِئْتِ سَبَّعْتُ عِنْدَكِ وَإِنْ شِئْتِ ثَلَّثْتُ ثُمَّ دُرْتُ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَتْ ثَلِّثْ

TOPICS
marriage  *  kindness  *  respect  *  relationship  *  nikah  *  karam  *  ihtiram

QUICK LESSONS:
Show kindness towards your spouse , Show appreciation towards your spouse , Make sure your spouse feels loved .

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith highlights the importance of kindness and respect in marriage. It shows that even though the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) was a busy man, he still made sure to show his wife Umm Salama love and care by giving her the choice of how long he would stay with her. He also respected her decision when she chose three nights instead of a week. This hadith teaches us that couples should always be kind to each other and show mutual respect in their relationship. It is important for husbands to make sure their wives feel appreciated and loved so they can have a strong bond between them.

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