Narrated Um Salama: that once the Prophet ﷺ was in her house, and an effeminate man was there too. The effeminate man said to 'Abdullah, (Um Salama's brother) "0 'Abdullah! If Ta'if should be conquered tomorrow, I recommend you the daughter of Ghailan, for she is so fat that she has four curves in the front (of her belly) and eight at the back". So the Prophet ﷺ said (to his wives) "These effeminate (men) should not enter upon you (your houses).
The Prophet Muhammad's warning against effeminate men is an important lesson for all Muslims, regardless of age or gender. It teaches us the importance of being aware of our surroundings and taking precautions when necessary in order to protect ourselves and those around us from potential harm or danger. We should always strive to create a safe environment for ourselves and our families, both inside and outside of our homes, so that we can live peacefully without fear or worry about what might happen if we are not careful enough with whom we associate with or allow into our lives.
