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Sahih al-Bukhari 5235 (Book 67, Hadith 168) #5014
Discouraging Inappropriate Comments

SUMMARY: The Prophet (ﷺ) warned against the presence of an effeminate man in the house and discouraged him from making inappropriate comments.

Narrated Um Salama: that while the Prophet was with her, there was an effeminate man in the house. The effeminate man said to Um Salama's brother, 'Abdullah bin Abi Umaiyya, "If Allah should make you conquer Ta'if tomorrow, I recommend that you take the daughter of Ghailan (in marriage) for (she is so fat) that she shows four folds of flesh when facing you and eight when she turns her back". Thereupon the Prophet said (to us), "This (effeminate man) should not enter upon you (anymore).
حَدَّثَنَا عُثْمَانُ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدَةُ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ زَيْنَبَ ابْنَةِ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ كَانَ عِنْدَهَا وَفِي الْبَيْتِ مُخَنَّثٌ، فَقَالَ الْمُخَنَّثُ لأَخِي أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي أُمَيَّةَ إِنْ فَتَحَ اللَّهُ عَلَيْكُمُ الطَّائِفَ غَدًا أَدُلُّكَ عَلَى ابْنَةِ غَيْلاَنَ، فَإِنَّهَا تُقْبِلُ بِأَرْبَعٍ وَتُدْبِرُ بِثَمَانٍ‏.‏ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ‏ "‏ لاَ يَدْخُلَنَّ هَذَا عَلَيْكُنَّ

TOPICS
discouragement  *  inappropriateness  *  comments  *  tahdhib  *  lazim  *  hukm

QUICK LESSONS:
Speak kindly and respectfully towards others; Take responsibility for one’s own actions/words; Avoid language that could be deemed offensive or hurtful towards others; Maintain a positive environment when interacting with others .

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith is about the Prophet's warning against inappropriate comments made by an effeminate man in Um Salama's house. The Prophet was displeased with this comment and warned that this person should not enter upon them anymore. This hadith teaches us to be mindful of our words, as they can have a lasting impact on those around us. We should always strive to speak kindly and respectfully, avoiding any language that could be deemed offensive or hurtful to others. Furthermore, it is important to remember that we are responsible for our own actions and words, so we must take care when speaking or interacting with others in order to maintain a positive environment for everyone involved.

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