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Sahih al-Bukhari 5230 (Book 67, Hadith 163) #5009
Refusing Marriage for the Sake of Loved Ones

SUMMARY: The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) refused to allow Ali bin Abu Talib to marry the daughter of Banu Hisham bin Al-Mughira, as he considered Fatima a part of his body and would not do anything that would hurt her.

Narrated Al-Miswar bin Makhrama: I heard Allah's Messenger who was on the pulpit, saying, "Banu Hisham bin Al-Mughira have requested me to allow them to marry their daughter to 'Ali bin Abu Talib, but I don't give permission, and will not give permission unless 'Ali bin Abi Talib divorces my daughter in order to marry their daughter, because Fatima is a part of my body, and I hate what she hates to see, and what hurts her, hurts me".
حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ، حَدَّثَنَا اللَّيْثُ، عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ، عَنِ الْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ مَخْرَمَةَ، قَالَ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ يَقُولُ وَهْوَ عَلَى الْمِنْبَرِ ‏ "‏ إِنَّ بَنِي هِشَامِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ اسْتَأْذَنُوا فِي أَنْ يُنْكِحُوا ابْنَتَهُمْ عَلِيَّ بْنَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ فَلاَ آذَنُ، ثُمَّ لاَ آذَنُ، ثُمَّ لاَ آذَنُ، إِلاَّ أَنْ يُرِيدَ ابْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَ ابْنَتِي وَيَنْكِحَ ابْنَتَهُمْ، فَإِنَّمَا هِيَ بَضْعَةٌ مِنِّي، يُرِيبُنِي مَا أَرَابَهَا وَيُؤْذِينِي مَا آذَاهَا ‏"‏‏.‏ هَكَذَا قَالَ‏.‏

TOPICS
marriage  *  refusal  *  love  *  family  *  nikah  *  radaaa  *  mahabbah  *  ahl

QUICK LESSONS:
Put your loved ones first; Maintain strong relationships with your family; Be kind & compassionate towards your family; Make sacrifices for them if necessary; Support each other through difficult times; Show Allah's love by being kind & compassionate towards your family members.

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith is about how much Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) loved his daughter Fatima and how he was willing to refuse a marriage proposal in order to protect her feelings. He said that she was a part of his body and whatever hurt her also hurt him. This shows us the importance of family and love in Islam. It teaches us that we should always put our loved ones first and be willing to make sacrifices for them if necessary. We should also strive to maintain strong relationships with our family members so that we can support each other through difficult times. Furthermore, this hadith reminds us that Allah loves those who are kind and compassionate towards their families.

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