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Sahih al-Bukhari 5167 (Book 67, Hadith 102) #4948
Celebrating Marriage with Generosity

SUMMARY: The Prophet (ﷺ) encouraged 'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Auf to give a banquet even if it was with one sheep, after he married an Ansari woman and gave her a mahr of gold equal to the weight of a date stone.

Narrated Anas: When 'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Auf married an Ansari woman, the Prophet asked him, "How much Mahr did you give her?" 'Abdur-Rahman said, "Gold equal to the weight of a date stone". Anas added: When they (ie the Prophet and his companions) arrived at Medina, the emigrants stayed at the Ansar's houses'.Abdur-Rahman bin 'Auf stayed at Sa'd bin Ar-Rabi's house. Sa'd said to 'Abdur- Rahman, "I will divide and share my property with you and will give one of my two wives to you"'.Abdur-Rahman said, "May Allah bless you, your wives and property (I am not in need of that; but kindly show me the way to the market)". So 'Abdur-Rahman went to the market and traded there gaining a profit of some dried yoghurt and butter, and married (an Ansari woman). The Prophet said to him, "Give a banquet, even if with one sheep".
حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيٌّ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي حُمَيْدٌ، أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ أَنَسًا ـ رضى الله عنه ـ قَالَ سَأَلَ النَّبِيُّ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ عَوْفٍ وَتَزَوَّجَ امْرَأَةً مِنَ الأَنْصَارِ ‏"‏ كَمْ أَصْدَقْتَهَا ‏"‏‏.‏ قَالَ وَزْنَ نَوَاةٍ مِنْ ذَهَبٍ‏.‏ وَعَنْ حُمَيْدٍ سَمِعْتُ أَنَسًا قَالَ لَمَّا قَدِمُوا الْمَدِينَةَ نَزَلَ الْمُهَاجِرُونَ عَلَى الأَنْصَارِ فَنَزَلَ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ عَوْفٍ عَلَى سَعْدِ بْنِ الرَّبِيعِ فَقَالَ أُقَاسِمُكَ مَالِي وَأَنْزِلُ لَكَ عَنْ إِحْدَى امْرَأَتَىَّ‏.‏ قَالَ بَارَكَ اللَّهُ لَكَ فِي أَهْلِكَ وَمَالِكَ‏.‏ فَخَرَجَ إِلَى السُّوقِ فَبَاعَ وَاشْتَرَى فَأَصَابَ شَيْئًا مِنْ أَقِطٍ وَسَمْنٍ فَتَزَوَّجَ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ‏"‏ أَوْلِمْ وَلَوْ بِشَاةٍ

TOPICS
marriage  *  banquet  *  generosity  *  nikah  *  mahr  *  walima

QUICK LESSONS:
Celebrate marriages joyfully & generously according to Islamic teachings & traditions .

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith is about the importance of celebrating marriages with generosity. It tells us that when 'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Auf married an Ansari woman, the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ asked him how much mahr he had given her. Mahr is a gift or dowry that is traditionally given by the groom to his bride at the time of their marriage. In this case, Abdur-Rahman bin Auf gave his bride gold equal to the weight of a date stone as her mahr. When they arrived in Medina, Abdur- Rahman stayed at Sa'd bin Ar-Rabi's house and Sa'd offered him one of his two wives as well as sharing his property with him but Abdur Rahman declined and instead went out into the market and traded there gaining some dried yoghurt and butter which he used for his wedding feast or walima. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ then encouraged him to give this banquet even if it was only with one sheep which shows us how important it is for Muslims to celebrate marriages generously no matter what their financial situation may be.

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