Take an oath of allegiance , Follow Allah’s commands .

In this hadith, narrated by Um Atiya, we learn about the importance of taking an oath of allegiance to Allah's Messenger and refraining from bewailing the dead. A woman was hesitant to take this oath because she wanted to reward someone else's relative who had done the same for her. However, when she explained this situation to Prophet Muhammad ﷺ he accepted her pledge without any objection. This teaches us that it is important for us as Muslims to take an oath of allegiance and refrain from bewailing our deceased relatives in order to show respect towards them and follow Allah’s commands. We should also remember that if we have a valid reason or explanation for not following a certain commandment then it is acceptable in Islam as long as it does not go against any other teachings or values found in Islam itself.