Narrated Hisham's father: It was mentioned before 'Aisha that Ibn 'Umar attributed the following statement to the Prophet ﷺ "The dead person is punished in the grave because of the crying and lamentation Of his family". On that, 'Aisha said, "But Allah's Messenger ﷺ said, 'The dead person is punished for his crimes and sins while his family cry over him then". She added, "And this is similar to the statement of Allah's Messenger ﷺ when he stood by the (edge of the) well which contained the corpses of the pagans killed at Badr, 'They hear what I say'. She added, "But he said now they know very well what I used to tell them was the truth"'.Aisha then recited: 'You cannot make the dead hear'. (30:52) and 'You cannot make those who are in their Graves, hear you'. (35:22) that is, when they had taken their places in the (Hell) Fire.
