Respect for others’ decisions ; Graceful acceptance ; Consulting those involved before making decisions ; Understanding of others’ feelings ; Patience in difficult situations .

This hadith is about a woman named Hafsa who was married off to al-Mundhir ibn az-Zubayr while her father, Abd ar-Rahman, was away in Syria. When he returned and found out what had happened, he expressed his displeasure at not being consulted before the marriage took place. However, A'isha spoke to al-Mundhir and asked him to leave the decision in the hands of Abd ar-Rahman. In the end, Abd ar-Rahman accepted that the marriage had already taken place and did not oppose it further. This hadith teaches us that even if something has been done without our consent or knowledge beforehand, we should accept it with grace and understanding rather than opposing it further. It also teaches us that we should always consult those involved before making any decisions which will affect them directly or indirectly.