Focus on finding your own way first before trying to help others find theirs .

This hadith teaches us that we should not help someone who is lost if we ourselves are also lost. It was narrated by Mundhir bin Jarir, who said he was with his father in Bawazij and saw a cow that did not look familiar. His father asked what it was and the people said it had joined the herd. His father then recalled a saying of Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, which stated “No one gives refuge to a stray animal but one who is also astray”. This means that if you yourself are confused or do not know where you are going, then you should not try to help someone else who is in the same situation as you because it will only make matters worse for both of you. Instead, focus on finding your own way first before trying to help others find theirs.