Respectfully gather with family members , Prepare food , Express grief appropriately .

This hadith is about how to properly grieve for someone who has passed away. It teaches us that gathering with the family of the deceased and preparing food is not a form of wailing or mourning. Instead, it should be done in a respectful manner without excessive crying or loud noises. This hadith encourages us to remember our loved ones in a dignified way and to show respect for their memory by avoiding any behavior that could be seen as disrespectful or inappropriate. It also reminds us that grief is an important part of life and should be expressed in an appropriate manner.