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Jami at-Tirmidhi 2980 (Book 47, Hadith 32) #28629
Approaching Wives in Marriage

SUMMARY: This hadith explains the verse from the Quran which states that a husband can approach his wife in any way he wishes, as long as it is not through the anus or during menstruation.

Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: "'Umar came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'O Messenger of Allah! I am ruined!' He said: 'Why are you ruined?' He said: 'I turned my mount during the night (meaning that he went into his wife from behind)'." He said: "So the Messenger of Allah did not say anything in reply to him. Then Allah revealed this Ayah to the Messenger of Allah : 'Your wives are a tilth for you, so go to your tilth when or how you will (2:223)'. From the front, the back, avoiding the anus, and menstruation".
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ بْنُ حُمَيْدٍ، حَدَّثَنَا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ مُوسَى، حَدَّثَنَا يَعْقُوبُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ الأَشْعَرِيُّ، عَنْ جَعْفَرِ بْنِ أَبِي الْمُغِيرَةِ، عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ جُبَيْرٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ، قَالَ جَاءَ عُمَرُ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ هَلَكْتُ قَالَ ‏"‏ وَمَا أَهْلَكَكَ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ حَوَّلْتُ رَحْلِي اللَّيْلَةَ ‏.‏ قَالَ فَلَمْ يَرُدَّ عَلَيْهِ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ شَيْئًا قَالَ فَأَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ هَذِهِ الآيَةَ ‏:‏ ‏(‏نِسَاؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَكُمْ فَأْتُوا حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّى شِئْتُمْ ‏)‏ أَقْبِلْ وَأَدْبِرْ وَاتَّقِ الدُّبُرَ وَالْحِيضَةَ ‏.‏ قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ غَرِيبٌ وَيَعْقُوبُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ الأَشْعَرِيُّ هُوَ يَعْقُوبُ الْقُمِّيُّ

TOPICS
marriage  *  anus  *  menstruation  *  zawaj  *  mataa  *  farj  *  haid  *  tilth

QUICK LESSONS:
Respect your spouse when engaging with them .

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith explains a verse from the Quran which states that husbands are allowed to approach their wives in any way they wish, except for through the anus or during menstruation. Umar came to Prophet Muhammad and told him that he had gone into his wife from behind, and Prophet Muhammad did not reply. Then Allah revealed this ayah to Prophet Muhammad which stated that husbands are allowed to go into their wives from any direction they wish, except for through the anus or during menstruation. This ayah teaches us about marriage and how it should be conducted with respect and honor between both partners. It also teaches us about modesty and how we should avoid certain acts when engaging with our spouses.

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