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Jami at-Tirmidhi 2701 (Book 42, Hadith 14) #28336
Responding to Hostility with Kindness

SUMMARY: The Prophet ﷺ taught us to be gentle and respond with kindness even when faced with hostility.

Narrated 'Aishah: that a group of Jews entered upon the Prophet and they said: "As-Samu 'Alaik (death be upon you)". So the Prophet said: "Wa 'Alaik (And upon you)". So 'Aishah said: "I said: 'Rather upon you be death and the curse'." So the Prophet said: "O 'Aishah! Indeed Allah loves gentleness in every matter"'.Aishah said: "Did you not hear what they said?" He said: "And I replied: 'And upon you'."
حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ الْمَخْزُومِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ إِنَّ رَهْطًا مِنَ الْيَهُودِ دَخَلُوا عَلَى النَّبِيِّ فَقَالُوا السَّامُ عَلَيْكَ ‏.‏ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ‏"‏ عَلَيْكُمْ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ فَقَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ فَقُلْتُ بَلْ عَلَيْكُمُ السَّامُ وَاللَّعْنَةُ ‏.‏ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ‏"‏ يَا عَائِشَةُ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يُحِبُّ الرِّفْقَ فِي الأَمْرِ كُلِّهِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ أَلَمْ تَسْمَعْ مَا قَالُوا قَالَ ‏"‏ قَدْ قُلْتُ عَلَيْكُمْ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ وَفِي الْبَابِ عَنْ أَبِي بَصْرَةَ الْغِفَارِيِّ وَابْنِ عُمَرَ وَأَنَسٍ وَأَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ الْجُهَنِيِّ ‏.‏ قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى حَدِيثُ عَائِشَةَ حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ

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gentleness  *  kindness  *  response  *  alaik

QUICK LESSONS:
Respond kindly even when faced with hostility .

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith teaches us the importance of responding to hostility with gentleness and kindness. Even when faced with aggression, we should not respond in kind but instead show mercy and compassion. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) demonstrated this by responding to a group of Jews who said "As-Samu 'Alaik" ("death be upon you") by saying "Wa 'Alaik" ("and upon you"). His wife, Aishah, was surprised at his response but he explained that Allah loves gentleness in every matter. This hadith reminds us that no matter how difficult the situation may be, we should always strive for peace and understanding rather than engaging in conflict or violence. We can learn from this hadith that it is better to forgive than to seek revenge; it is better to show mercy than hatred; it is better to love than hate; and it is better to give peace a chance rather than resorting immediately into violence or aggression.

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