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Jami at-Tirmidhi 2132 (Book 31, Hadith 9) #27765
The Gift That Cannot Be Taken Back

SUMMARY: It is not permissible to take back a gift, except in the case of a father and his son.

Ibn 'Umar and Ibn 'Abbas narrated the Marfu Hadith: "It is not lawful for a man to give a gift and then take it back, except in the case of the father with what he gave to his son. And the parable of the one who gives a gift, and then takes it back, is that of a dog who eats until he is full, and vomits, then he returns to his vomit". Abu 'Eisa said: This Hadith is Hasan Sahih. Ash-Shafi'i said: "It is not lawful for one who confers something to take it back, except in the case of the father. He may take back what he gave his son" and he used this Hadith as proof.
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ، حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَبِي عَدِيٍّ، عَنْ حُسَيْنٍ الْمُعَلِّمِ، عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ، حَدَّثَنِي طَاوُسٌ، عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ، وَابْنِ، عَبَّاسٍ يَرْفَعَانِ الْحَدِيثَ قَالَ ‏ "‏ لاَ يَحِلُّ لِلرَّجُلِ أَنْ يُعْطِيَ عَطِيَّةً ثُمَّ يَرْجِعَ فِيهَا إِلاَّ الْوَالِدَ فِيمَا يُعْطِي وَلَدَهُ وَمَثَلُ الَّذِي يُعْطِي الْعَطِيَّةَ ثُمَّ يَرْجِعُ فِيهَا كَمَثَلِ الْكَلْبِ أَكَلَ حَتَّى إِذَا شَبِعَ قَاءَ ثُمَّ عَادَ فِي قَيْئِهِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ ‏.‏ قَالَ الشَّافِعِيُّ لاَ يَحِلُّ لِمَنْ وَهَبَ هِبَةً أَنْ يَرْجِعَ فِيهَا إِلاَّ الْوَالِدَ فَلَهُ أَنْ يَرْجِعَ فِيمَا أَعْطَى وَلَدَهُ ‏.‏ وَاحْتَجَّ بِهَذَا الْحَدِيثِ

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gift  *  father  *  son  *  lawful  *  hibah  *  ab  *  ibn  *  halal

QUICK LESSONS:
Give gifts without expecting anything in return

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith speaks about the importance of giving gifts without expecting anything in return. It is not permissible to take back a gift, except in the case of a father and his son. The hadith uses an analogy of a dog eating until it is full and then vomiting it out again to explain this concept further. Ash-Shafi'i used this hadith as proof that it is only lawful for one who confers something to take it back if they are a father taking something from their son. This hadith teaches us that we should give gifts with no expectations or strings attached, as taking them back would be like returning to our own vomit - something which would be considered disgusting by most people. We should also remember that even though fathers have more authority over their sons than anyone else, they should still treat them with respect when taking things away from them or asking for things back from them.

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