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Sunan Abi Dawud 4999 (Book 43, Hadith 227) #25290
Bringing Peace in Conflict

SUMMARY: The Prophet ﷺ prevented AbuBakr from slapping Aisha and brought them to peace.

Narrated An-Nu'man ibn Bashir: When AbuBakr asked the permission of the Prophet to come in, he heard Aisha speaking in a loud voice. So when he entered, he caught hold of her in order to slap her, and said: Do I see you raising your voice to the Messenger of Allah? The Prophet began to prevent him and AbuBakr went out angry. The Prophet said when AbuBakr went out: You see I rescued you from the man. AbuBakr waited for some days, then asked permission of the Messenger of Allah to enter, and found that they had made peace with each other. He said to them: Bring me into your peace as you brought me into your war. The Prophet said: We have done so: we have done so.
حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ مَعِينٍ، حَدَّثَنَا حَجَّاجُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، حَدَّثَنَا يُونُسُ بْنُ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ، عَنْ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ، عَنِ الْعَيْزَارِ بْنِ حُرَيْثٍ، عَنِ النُّعْمَانِ بْنِ بَشِيرٍ، قَالَ اسْتَأْذَنَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ رَحْمَةُ اللَّهِ عَلَيْهِ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ فَسَمِعَ صَوْتَ عَائِشَةَ عَالِيًا فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ تَنَاوَلَهَا لِيَلْطِمَهَا وَقَالَ لاَ أَرَاكِ تَرْفَعِينَ صَوْتَكِ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ فَجَعَلَ النَّبِيُّ يَحْجُزُهُ وَخَرَجَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ مُغْضَبًا فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ حِينَ خَرَجَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ ‏"‏ كَيْفَ رَأَيْتِنِي أَنْقَذْتُكِ مِنَ الرَّجُلِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ فَمَكَثَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ أَيَّامًا ثُمَّ اسْتَأْذَنَ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ فَوَجَدَهُمَا قَدِ اصْطَلَحَا فَقَالَ لَهُمَا أَدْخِلاَنِي فِي سِلْمِكُمَا كَمَا أَدْخَلْتُمَانِي فِي حَرْبِكُمَا ‏.‏ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ‏"‏ قَدْ فَعَلْنَا قَدْ فَعَلْنَا

TOPICS
conflict  *  peace  *  resolution  *  reconciliation  *  fitnah  *  qalilah

QUICK LESSONS:
Try your best not resorting violence or aggression; Resolve conflicts peacefully through dialogue; Understand one another's perspectives better; Forgive others after disagreements occur; Restore relationships after disagreements occur; Use mediation when resolving conflicts between two parties who are at odds with each other .

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith is about the Prophet Muhammad's ability to bring peace between two people in conflict. In this case, it was between Abu Bakr and Aisha. Abu Bakr had asked for permission to enter the room where the Prophet was with Aisha and heard her speaking in a loud voice. He became angry and wanted to slap her but the Prophet prevented him from doing so. After some days passed, Abu Bakr asked for permission again and found that they had made peace with each other. He then said that he wanted to be included in their peace as he was included in their war. The Prophet accepted his request and they were all reconciled together again. This hadith teaches us that even when we are angry or upset with someone else, it is important to try our best not to resort to violence or aggression but instead try our best to resolve conflicts peacefully through dialogue and understanding one another's perspectives better. It also shows us how powerful mediation can be when it comes resolving conflicts between two parties who are at odds with each other as well as how important forgiveness is for restoring relationships after a disagreement has occurred between two people or groups of people.

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