Give away alms or charity if you have enough resources after taking care of yourself and your family's needs first .

This hadith is about charity and self-care. It teaches us that while it is important to give charity, we should also take care of ourselves and our families first. In this hadith, a man brought some dates to the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). The Prophet asked him to give them away as alms or charity. However, when the man said that he and his family were in need of them, the Prophet allowed him to keep them for himself instead. This teaches us that while it is important to help those who are less fortunate than us through giving alms or charity, we should also make sure our own needs are taken care of first before helping others. We can learn from this hadith that taking care of ourselves does not mean being selfish; rather it means making sure we have enough resources so that we can help others too.