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Sahih al-Bukhari 2265, 2266 (Book 37, Hadith 6) #2172
Unreasonable Expectations

SUMMARY: The Prophet (ﷺ) taught that one should not expect others to act in a way that is unreasonable and impossible.

Narrated Ya'la bin Umaiya: I fought in Jaish-al-Usra (Ghazwa of Tabuk) along with the Prophet ﷺ and in my opinion that was the best of my deeds. Then I had an employee, who quarrel led with someone and one of the them bit and cut the other's finger and caused his own tooth to fall out. He then went to the Prophet (with a complaint) but the Prophet ﷺ canceled the suit and said to the complainant, "Did you expect him to let his finger in your mouth so that you might snap and cut it (as does a stallion camel)?" Narrated Ibn Juraij from 'Abdullah bin Abu Mulaika from his grandfather a similar story: A man bit the hand of another man and caused his own tooth to fall out, but Abu Bakr judged that he had no right for compensation (for the broken tooth).
حَدَّثَنَا يَعْقُوبُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ ابْنُ عُلَيَّةَ، أَخْبَرَنَا ابْنُ جُرَيْجٍ، قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي عَطَاءٌ، عَنْ صَفْوَانَ بْنِ يَعْلَى، عَنْ يَعْلَى بْنِ أُمَيَّةَ ـ رضى الله عنه ـ قَالَ غَزَوْتُ مَعَ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ جَيْشَ الْعُسْرَةِ فَكَانَ مِنْ أَوْثَقِ أَعْمَالِي فِي نَفْسِي، فَكَانَ لِي أَجِيرٌ، فَقَاتَلَ إِنْسَانًا، فَعَضَّ أَحَدُهُمَا إِصْبَعَ صَاحِبِهِ، فَانْتَزَعَ إِصْبَعَهُ، فَأَنْدَرَ ثَنِيَّتَهُ فَسَقَطَتْ، فَانْطَلَقَ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَأَهْدَرَ ثَنِيَّتَهُ وَقَالَ ‏ "‏ أَفَيَدَعُ إِصْبَعَهُ فِي فِيكَ تَقْضَمُهَا ـ قَالَ أَحْسِبُهُ قَالَ ـ كَمَا يَقْضَمُ الْفَحْلُ ‏"‏‏.‏ قَالَ ابْنُ جُرَيْجٍ وَحَدَّثَنِي عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ، بِمِثْلِ هَذِهِ الصِّفَةِ أَنَّ رَجُلاً، عَضَّ يَدَ رَجُلٍ، فَأَنْدَرَ ثَنِيَّتَهُ، فَأَهْدَرَهَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ رضى الله عنه‏.‏
TOPICS
unreasonable  *  expectations  *  justice  *  compensation  *  jaishalusra  *  ghazwa  *  tabuk  *  tawakkul  *  adl  *  jaza

QUICK LESSONS:
Be fair and just when dealing with other people; Do not make unreasonable demands of others; Respect the rights of all individuals; Treat everyone equally regardless of their background or beliefs; Uphold justice at all times; Follow the teachings of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ .

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith teaches us the importance of justice and fairness when dealing with others. It is important to remember that we cannot expect people to do things which are impossible or unreasonable. In this hadith, the Prophet ﷺ was asked for compensation for a broken tooth but he refused because it was not reasonable to expect someone else’s finger to be put in your mouth so you can bite it off like a camel would do. This teaches us that we must always be fair and just when dealing with other people, even if they have wronged us in some way. We must also remember not to make unreasonable demands of others as this will only lead to injustice and unfairness.

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