Respect those who are going through difficult times such as bereavement by not expecting them to be active or presentable during this time of grief.

This hadith discusses the mourning period for widows in Islam. According to this hadith, the Prophet was asked about a woman whose husband had passed away and if she could use kohl during her mourning period. The Prophet replied that the mourning period is four months and ten days, which is known as 'iddat'. During this time, it is recommended for widows to stay in their homes wearing their shabbiest clothes until they come out after completing their 'iddat'. This teaches us that we should respect those who are going through difficult times such as bereavement by not expecting them to be active or presentable during this time of grief. It also teaches us to be patient with those who are going through difficult times as they need time to heal from their loss before returning back into society.