Take marriage seriously , Consider all aspects before making an important decision , Fill marriage with joy & playfulness between couples .

In this hadith narrated by Jabir, the Prophet asked him why he chose to marry a previously married woman instead of a virgin. This hadith is teaching us that marriage should be taken seriously and it is important to consider all aspects before making such an important decision. It also teaches us that marriage should be filled with joy and playfulness between the couple. The Prophet was encouraging Jabir to choose someone who could bring him joy and happiness in his life through companionship and playfulness.