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Sahih Muslim 2184a (Book 39, Hadith 50) #12788
Inclusivity in Conversation

SUMMARY: It is important to be mindful of the feelings of others and not exclude them from conversations.

'Abdullah reported Allah's Messenger as saying: If you are three, two amongst you should not converse secretly between yourselves to the exclusion of the other (third one), until some other people join him (and dispel his loneliness), for it may hurt his feelings.
حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، وَهَنَّادُ بْنُ السَّرِيِّ، قَالاَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الأَحْوَصِ، عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ، ح وَحَدَّثَنَا زُهَيْرُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ، وَعُثْمَانُ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، وَإِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، - وَاللَّفْظُ لِزُهَيْرٍ - قَالَ إِسْحَاقُ أَخْبَرَنَا وَقَالَ الآخَرَانِ، حَدَّثَنَا - جَرِيرٌ، عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ، عَنْ أَبِي وَائِلٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ‏ "‏ إِذَا كُنْتُمْ ثَلاَثَةً فَلاَ يَتَنَاجَى اثْنَانِ دُونَ الآخَرِ حَتَّى تَخْتَلِطُوا بِالنَّاسِ مِنْ أَجْلِ أَنْ يُحْزِنَهُ

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conversation  *  exclusion  *  feelings

QUICK LESSONS:
Include everyone in conversations
EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith emphasizes the importance of being mindful of other people's feelings when engaging in conversation. It teaches us that we should not exclude someone from a conversation, even if there are only three people present. Doing so may hurt their feelings and make them feel left out or lonely. We should always strive to include everyone in our conversations, no matter how small the group is, so that everyone feels included and respected. This hadith also encourages us to be more aware of how our words and actions can affect others around us, as well as how we can use our words to bring people together instead of pushing them apart.

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