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Sahih Muslim 1488c (Book 18, Hadith 76) #10864
Respect for Widow's Waiting Period

SUMMARY: This hadith is about the importance of observing the waiting period (Idda) for a widow and how it should be respected.

Zainab bint Umm Salama (Allah be pleased with her) reported on the authority of her mother that a woman lost her husband. (As her eyes were ailing) they (her kith and kin) entertained fear about her eyes, so they came to Allah's Apostle and sought permission for the use of collyrium, whereupon Allah's Messenger said: One among you used to spend one year in a dungeon dressed in worst clothes. (And at the end of this period) she threw dung at the dog which happened to pass that way and then she came out (of her 'Idda). Can't she (wait) even for four months and ten days?
وَحَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْمُثَنَّى، حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ، حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ حُمَيْدِ بْنِ نَافِعٍ، قَالَ سَمِعْتُ زَيْنَبَ بِنْتَ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ، تُحَدِّثُ عَنْ أُمِّهَا، أَنَّ امْرَأَةً، تُوُفِّيَ زَوْجُهَا فَخَافُوا عَلَى عَيْنِهَا فَأَتَوُا النَّبِيَّ فَاسْتَأْذَنُوهُ فِي الْكُحْلِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ‏ "‏ قَدْ كَانَتْ إِحْدَاكُنَّ تَكُونُ فِي شَرِّ بَيْتِهَا فِي أَحْلاَسِهَا - أَوْ فِي شَرِّ أَحْلاَسِهَا فِي بَيْتِهَا - حَوْلاً فَإِذَا مَرَّ كَلْبٌ رَمَتْ بِبَعَرَةٍ فَخَرَجَتْ أَفَلاَ أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا

TOPICS
waiting  *  widow  *  respect  *  patience

QUICK LESSONS:
Have patience during difficult times, Honor Islamic laws even when it may seem inconvenient or hard

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith speaks to the importance of respecting and honoring the waiting period of a widow. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ was asked by a group of people if they could use collyrium on a woman who lost her husband, to which he replied with an example from his own time. He said that there was once a woman who spent one year in prison wearing only ragged clothes and at the end she threw dung at a dog that passed by before she completed her waiting period. His point was that if this woman could wait out her entire year in such difficult circumstances then surely this other woman can wait four months and ten days as prescribed by Islamic law. This hadith teaches us to have patience during difficult times and respect for those who are going through them. It also reminds us to honor Islamic laws even when it may seem inconvenient or hard because Allah knows best what is good for us in our lives.

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