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Asselamwalaikum warehmatulla hiwabarakatuhu ,there are so many responsibilities of a slave human being to undertake in order to enter jannah, amongst those motherhood has a great rewardable blessing which Allah swt has bestowed upon us , prophet muhammad pbuh said: jannah lies beneath the feet of mother, it means we should be so much devoted to our mothers and parents in general, .having spoken about angry parents and mother ,its very difficult to handle as there is no choice left , it can be a test from Allah swt and we need to seek patience ,but there are some duties of parents to understand in order to raise their children,..the way they treat their children will be treated by them in reverse,.if parents are respectfull then a child will also respect..we come across such problems due to lack of islamic knowledge amongst our parents,which results in such issues,.its very important for parents to understand the rights of a child in islam,i.e.repecting,nourishing,giving equal importance to every child,affection,love and teaching islam..if parents dnt obey Allah then how would a child obey them?..its not only with you but even i have faced it ,and facing it even today..
Secondly dnt consider yourself like your mother, dnt be scared from being a mother as you need to learn that what you felt or suffered ,your children should not suffer due to you as you did suffered by your parents,.just learn to be a nice mother and a caring mother, for this you should be a devoted slave of Allah and hold patience,and just focus on deen i.e. Quran and sunnah. It will help you to be a better worshipper of Allah swt and ultimately you will be a good human being and mother,as islam teaches us to worship Allah by pleasing our fellow companions like love,care,hospitality ,mercy,charity etc. May Allah guide you with knowledge of deen and may he overcome your problems and grant jannah ameen😊
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