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Topic: Personal - Relationship with Arab
Posted By: saida
Subject: Personal - Relationship with Arab
Date Posted: 27 August 2018 at 2:59am
Salam,
I'm in relationship with Syrian guy. I'm Malaysian.Every relationship has up and down so do in our relationship. As we know, it's not easy for them to accept a person who is not Arab & not in their region. he talk to his siblings and they totally rejected this relationship saying that its not going to work. He haven't talk to his parents & feels the same answer too.

How am i going to do? I don't want him to go against his family but in the same time I love him. i have done my istikharah before i started to know him and Allah give a positive answer.



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Posted By: Dr. Aslam
Date Posted: 31 August 2018 at 11:54am
Wa alaikum
Marriage is a union of two compatible individuals. First find out how he feels towards inter racial marriages. If you are convinced that he is not racist and loves you of who you are, then make the decision. What is important is how you two relate to each others. Parents do not own their children like a property. Yes, many a times people have to take independent decision especially in marriages because it is husband wife who have to deal with each other for the rest of their lives.



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Best Regards,
Aslam Abdullah


Posted By: abuayisha
Date Posted: 01 September 2018 at 12:21pm
wa alaikum salaam, What does your family say about this "relationship" given what you've written here?



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